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LATENCY ISSUES (100k+ PING)

2020.09.25 21:10 DustinReturns LATENCY ISSUES (100k+ PING)

Problem:
So I'm experiencing latency issues with a ping that goes above 100k+.
Details:
The Support gave up on me and I talked to it for about 2 months already. (http://prntscr.com/unxfd8) In Territorial Wars I'm not experiencing the issue at all even if there's a 15v15 siege situation. Yes, I tried out every single solution they've sent me and ask many discord moderators. AND NO, they couldn't help me sadly but I appreciate that they don't give me copy paste answers and actually try to help me. YES I TRIED TURNING MY GAME ON AND OFF ALREADY FOR THE CLOWNS IN THIS REDDIT. No, my PC doesn't suck. At my other PC that I use when I'm away from home it works way better than on my main pc even though my main pc has better specs. No, it can't be the internet connection because I can do everything else smoothly without any problems WHILE I'm playing. Yes, I already tried to play it with a clean boot. In Field Battles it only lags on the desert map/s. My Windows and everything else is up to date, in the Open World I don't experience any ping problems and I can play many other games with a ping between 20-30. No, it can't be because my GPU is incompatible with my CPU simply because it didn't work with my 1060 as well and in the first days I played it I had no ping problems at all.
PC Specs:
RAM: 16GB DDR3 GPU: NVIDIA GeForce RTX 2060 SUPER CPU: i7-4770k @ 3.50GHz SSD (where the game is installed): Samsung SSD 860 EVO 1TB, there's more than enough space on it. OS: Windows 10 Pro 64 bit Mainboard: ASUS Z87-PRO V Edition
My LAN cable can take 1 Gigabit and my current upload rate is at 100MBit/s (MBit/s equal 12 Mbp/s to download). 1 Gigabit would be a download speed of around 125Mbp/s. Additional note: I can play other games like Red Dead Redemption: 2 or Rainbow Six Siege without any problems with my PC specs so don't tell me "yOuR pC sPeCs ArE iNcOmPaTiBlE wItH eAcHoThEr).
If you are actually willing to help go ahead, thank you for reading this I really appreciate that you took your time to do it and please understand that I'm pissed because I'm already waiting 2 months to be able to play the game without any issues and I wasted already 2 months of premium.
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2020.09.24 17:52 dstnygn hit and run mistake

a few days ago, my husband was backing up in a parking lot and tapped the back of another car that was parked (and unoccupied). he left, and he says he didnt see any damage on the other car before deciding to leave. not an hour later, police call him and he goes back to the scene. when back, he does see that there was a bit of damage on the other driver’s car (paint damage). the police said they could arrest him there but because he came back and is young and respectful, they only gave him a court date (for the hit and run of over $1000 in damage) and told him to report to his insurance.
should he get a lawyer? or is this more of an issue of showing up to court and being sorry? there’s no real defense he could take, but we obviously don’t want him to end up criminally charged, especially with jail time. this is his first criminal offense and his only other traffic crime was a speeding ticket that got reduced to improper equipment (2 years ago). The cop said he would speak well on his behalf when asked because of his good behavior.
also, when he reported the wreck to insurance, he described it as it was but without saying hit and run (it wasn’t intuitive on how to find that option, if it even existed). He did give them the police report number though. Is this sufficient or do we need to somehow figure out how to specify that he hit and ran?
This is in NC, by the way.
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2020.09.14 20:03 crush-Survivor-123 Discovered my wife’s (now ex) affair the day she was admitted into hospital , now years later she can’t accept my engagement to my fiancé.

If ever there was a prize for thee most horrible way to learn of your significant other’s affair I would probably win it and be in its hall of fame, like so many people in this sub I suddenly found myself as a member of a club that no body ever wants to be part of.
I will never forget the sound of my ex- sister- in- law’s voice as she kept saying “ I’m sorry, I’m sorry “ over and over on the phone while I drove home from a week long business trip. I was confused and had absolutely no idea what she meant but only after I managed to calm her down somewhat did she inform me that my wife was in hospital and that I needed to hurry home , my mind went into overdrive as I tried to get more information as well as not crash while I began speeding to get there faster. The only thing she told me is that it was an assault then cut the call and wouldn’t answer when I tried to call her again.
A bit of background
My ex and I met in our mid 20s , it was through a mutual friend at a barbecue. At first she seemed almost too good to be true, not only was she incredibly beautiful but she was also shy and introverted. It took a while for us to officially date but once it happened I was over the moon , when we first tried to get intimate she suddenly started crying( should of taken this as a bad sign) . I freaked out and thought it was something I did but she apologized the next day and told me she was triggered, as it turns out two years before meeting me she was in a longterm relationship and a guy that was abusive both emotionally ,physically as well as mentally. He would degrade her during their moments of intimacy then apologize after ward , she had a Flashback but reassured me it had nothing to do with me so we took things slow as she was still in therapy. It was tough but because I loved her I believed once we got over this it would make our relationship stronger and for a while it honestly appeared that way. Fast forward another year and we’d gotten engaged ( first time intimacy also happened during this stage) , I was fortunate enough to be able to buy a house for us courtesy of inheritance from my late uncle . Things were going great and I half seriously suggested we plant a peach tree ( important for later on) to signify new beginnings and she was all for it.
We were wedded not long after that and quite frankly it was absolutely amazing. Of course we had our normal ups and downs like every married couple but I considered us more lucky because she always made it a point to never go to bed upset with each other and she would always point out gently if I did anything to upset her . Sometime later life basically happened and I was promoted at my job, it meant more pay but it also meant I would be traveling more for work conferences and business meetings. I noticed she had been getting down a lot more and wasn’t being as intimate as before , she would keep her phone close to her and even stopped gently addressing things that upset her. I tried to talk to her about it but she assured me that she was fine and this was a phase she was going through and having no reason to not trust her I let it go. She would sometimes go to her sister’s place and spend the night telling me she just needed a bit of girl time with her sister, the day I got that fateful phone call was the day she was meant to be keeping her sister company again.
I remember rushing into the hospital barely breathing and frantically asking about my wife when world’s most understanding and patient police officer sat me down to explain what happened. He told me he was a friend of my SIL and he happened to respond to a domestic disturbance call , he arrived on the scene to find a couple fighting. The supposed boyfriend was on top of the female punching her and she was screaming trying to scratch him , this didn’t make any sense to me because 1.) this had nothing to do with my wife because we’re married and 2.) literally every one who knew my wife knew she wouldn’t do that. He gave me a knowing look and placed his hand on my shoulder than told me to be very calm because said girlfriend was actually my wife. If it weren’t for the severity of the situation I would’ve laughed in his face but something in the way he said everything made me believe him , I then was ushered in by a nurse to see my wife and what greeted me to this day I still can hardly find the words to describe it. I just stood there for what seemed like an eternity then a doctor came it and explained her injuries to me . The jaw was slightly fractured , her left eye was completely swollen shut and had massive bruising covering half of her face aswell as 3 broken ribs . Then the doctor dropped another bomb and told me she was pregnant , I still couldn’t understand how this happened then I caught sight of her sister. She at first tried to avoid me but at the persuasion of her police officer friend she told her what she knew, it turns out my wife’s ex had gotten in contact with her five months ago, he was doing this redemption pyramid step thing where he would apologize to people he has wronged in order to clear his karma ( anyone else B.S meter going crazy right now). They began talking more then he convinced her to meet up for coffee and show her he was a changed man .
Obviously old feelings resurfaced coupled with the fact that he appeared changed now it soon developed into an emotional affair, my wife approached her sister for advice who told her to takes things slow and just get it out of her system if she needed to ,which then lead to a physical affair three months later.She actually told my wife that she should at least make peace with her ex in whatever form it may be and even offered to cover for my wife once in while. My SIL was in tears at this point and kept apologizing to me saying that she didn’t know about the abuse as my wife never told anyone other then me and her therapist at the time about it. I was numb , I just couldn’t feel anything and was absolutely dumbfounded by my wife’s actions. When my wife finally woke up I was there and she burst into tears upon seeing me. I spent the following months in zombie flight mode , there was individual counseling for her as well as marriage counseling for us at the strong urging of her family. In counseling she was surprisingly forthcoming about how it happened and how she absolutely hated herself for causing me pain, she mentioned how at one point on her way home from his place she actually fantasized about driving into the river because she smelt like him and didn’t want his scent to “ corrupt me” (however that made sense) , she said she the tried to end it but was too weak and only after learning that she was pregnant that it actually woke her up and made her realize that any further contact with this man was toxic to not only her but the unborn child aswell hence went to end things in person for good when he snapped on her. She became a shell of herself and developed a phobia for any other males but me, she one point she couldn’t even use the bathroom at night unless I was holding her hand ( sad right).
After the baby was born (son by the way) we got a paternity test and he was mine, but the more time I spent with her the more I realize I didn’t hate my wife , I actually loathed her . I couldn’t see the woman I married but instead saw his left overs each time I looked at her , I decided to leave because I was afraid I’d do something I’d regret and be exactly like her abusive ex. She bagged me not to leave and even made the ridiculous offer of giving me a “hall pass” as well as slapping her if I wanted to, I knew at this point I had to get out. She was actually very generous during the divorce , she moved back into her parents and signed a very well thought out co parenting plan issued by the courts.
Moving forward three years later and I meet my now fiancé by chance , I was in a book store with a buddy of mine and we were discussing Egyptian mythology when this beautiful woman approached me to correct me on my pronunciations of the Egyptian gods and cities. Needless to say immensely impressed by not only her understanding but also by the fact that she is Egyptian herself. We exchanged numbers which eventually lead us to dating, when I finally proposed to her it was actually in front of the preach tree I had plant years ago. I got down on one knee but before I got my answer she ran into the house then came out with a ring aswell. Turns out she was actually planning on proposing herself because she was madly in love with me and she just didn’t want any other woman to have me , my son in all his sweet child like innocence told his mother what happened because he was present when it happened. My ex literally showed up that night in the rain yelling about how could I propose to her ( my fiancé) in front of our tree and that this isn’t the end of us..
I am completely exhausted at this point, I cannot go NC because she is the mother of my child but she is basically harassing me and my fiancé. How do I convince her to move on , to get over her fear of men and not force me to get a restraining order.
Sorry it was long but I am really desperate.
Edit : Wanted to ask a question to the insightful women of reddit , something that still bugs me to this day is the fact that she even made time for her ex who took pleasure in destroying her only for her to suffer a much worse fate. Is it normal for the abused to want the attention of the abuser even if she might hate him ( something my ex said once)
Edit 2 : Forget to add this in the original post , when my fiancé presented me with the ring which she was gonna use to propose to me she had an engraving on the inner band which states “ to my pharaoh “ .Damn I love this woman.
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2020.09.14 18:35 CFB_Referee Hurricane Sally

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From the latest public advisory (as of 9/16 11:30 AM ET) Sally is likely to cause issues with rainfall, storm surge, surf, wind tornados, and flooding - including potential inland flooding.
Check your local weather or emergency management agency for more specific information where you are.
 
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College students should check out their university's emergency alert system - if you're not signed up to get notices, you should!
Useful links on: hurricane preparedness, emergency kits, emergency supplies for your car.
 
Louisburg Other things worth thinking about or getting:
  • General: A cooler. Fun/mental health stuff - books, games, etc. Cash. Weather radio and batteries. Flashlights > candles. Backup cell phone, laptop, or other batteries. Extra water. Hand sanitizer. Comfort items (a toddler's blankie, the puppy's favorite toy, your grandpa's watch you can't imagine losing).
  • Specialized: Transportation and assistive devices (think especially about children, pets, the elderly, people with disabilities).
  • Cars: Gas. Window breakeseatbelt cutter.
 
Gattaca Florida Safety:
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  • Watch out for downed power lines. Never assume it is dead. Avoid it.
  • Assume floodwaters are deeper than they look. Turn around, don't drown.
  • Learn your flood and evacuation zones!
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  • If your home floods and you need to go up, head for the roof. Keep an ax in your attic to get out that way if you need it.
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  • Evacuate! If you can, check on people you know to see if they need help evacuating if you can offer it or put them in touch with someone who can.
 
Hertfordshire Documentation:
  • Bring it with you.
  • Store it in a plastic bag to they are together and stay dry.
  • House deed/rental agreement/lease.
  • Insurance information (home, car, renters, medical, flood).
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  • Take photographs of your home before you evacuate and when you return. Good documentation of the damage may help if you need to file an aid or insurance claim.
 
For long-term preparedness, check out CERT training information.
 
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College Information
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/CFB Ball Alabama
University Update Sources
Bishop State Community College All remote learning on Monday and Tuesday. All events cancelled Monday and Tuesday. 7
Coastal Alabama Community College Closses at 2 PM on Monday. In person classes closed through Wendesday. Online classes continue to meet. 5
Spring Hill College Classes cancelled after 1:30 PM on Monday. Classes online on Tuesday. 5
University of Mobile Move to all online instruction as of 1:30 PM Monday. Normal classes resume Wendesday. 5
South Alabama University of South Alabama Classes, events, and activities canceled Tuesday and Wednesday. 16
 
/CFB Ball Florida
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Gulf Coast State College All campuses closed Tuesday. 11
Northwest Florida State College Closed through Tuesday. 13
Pensacola State College All campuses closed Monday and Tuesday. 7, 17
West Florida University of West Florida All classes - in person and online - cancelled through Thursday. 18
 
/CFB Ball Louisiana
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Delgado Community College Online classes only on Monday and Tuesday. 8, 19
Loyola Operating normally until 4 PM on Monday. Classes canceled Tuesday. Classes resume Wednesday. 2, 20
New Orleans Theological Seminary/Leavell College Closed Monday-Wednesday. 8
Nicholls Nicholls State All classes online Monday-Wednesday. 4
Northshore Technical Community College Online on Monday. Closed on Tuesday. Decision on Wednesday pending. 8, 21
Nunez College Online classes continue. In person classes cancelled Monday and Tuesday. 8
Southeastern Louisiana Southeastern University All classes online on Monday. All classes cancelled on Tuesday. 14
Southern Southern University Normal operations on Tuesday. 9, 22
Tulane Tulane In person and online classes canceled after noon on Monday and Tuesday. Wednesday classes TBD. 1
Holy Cross University of Holy Cross Closed Monday and Tuesday. 8
University of New Orleans Classes all online on Monday. In person, online, and hybrid classes canceled on Tuesday. 3
Xavier University Classes online after 5 PM Monday. Classes cancelled Tuesday. 8
 
/CFB Ball Mississippi
University Update Sources
Jones County JC Jones College All classes online through Wednesday. 12
Mississippi Gulf Coast CC Mississippi Gulf Coast Community College All classes online starting Monday at noon and Tuesday. 10
Southern Miss University of Southern Mississippi - Gulf Coast Locations All classes and events moved online starting at noon on Monday. 15
 
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Touchdown Game Information Penalty Flag
We'll be updating this list as we get information.
This list includes all games played with teams in affected states. Many may not be affected, but given the ripple effects of things like travel and the particular complications of scheduling this season, we've listed them all here for reference.
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9/18 7:30 PM ET Coastal Carolina Campbell Conway, SC
9/19 12:00 PM ET Georgia State Louisiana Atlanta, GA
9/19 12:00 PM ET Tulane Navy New Orleans, LA
9/19 12:00 PM ET Duke Boston College Durham, NC
9/19 2:30 PM ET Notre Dame USF South Bend, IN
9/19 3:30 PM ET Georgia Tech UCF Atlanta, GA
9/19 3:30 PM ET Georgia Southern FAU Statesboro, GA
9/19 3:30 PM ET UNC Charlotte Chapel Hill, NC
9/19 4:00 PM ET Middle Tennessee Troy Murfreesboro, TN
9/19 4:00 PM ET Clemson The Citadel Clemson, SC
9/19 7:30 PM ET ULM Texas State Monroe, LA
9/19 7:30 PM ET Louisville Miami (FL) Louisville, KY
9/19 7:30 PM ET Southern Miss Louisiana Tech Hattiesburg, MS
9/19 8:00 PM ET NC State Wake Forest Raleigh, NC
 
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2020.09.13 22:35 crush-Survivor-123 Discovered my wife’s (now ex) affair the day she was admitted into hospital , now years later she can’t accept my engagement to my fiancé.

If ever there was a prize for thee most horrible way to learn of your significant other’s affair I would probably win it and be in its hall of fame, like so many people in this sub I suddenly found myself as a member of a club that no body ever wants to be part of.
I will never forget the sound of my ex- sister- in- law’s voice as she kept saying “ I’m sorry, I’m sorry “ over and over on the phone while I drove home from a week long business trip. I was confused and had absolutely no idea what she meant but only after I managed to calm her down somewhat did she inform me that my wife was in hospital and that I needed to hurry home , my mind went into overdrive as I tried to get more information as well as not crash while I began speeding to get there faster. The only thing she told me is that it was an assault then cut the call and wouldn’t answer when I tried to call her again.
A bit of background
My ex and I met in our mid 20s , it was through a mutual friend at a barbecue. At first she seemed almost too good to be true, not only was she incredibly beautiful but she was also shy and introverted. It took a while for us to officially date but once it happened I was over the moon , when we first tried to get intimate she suddenly started crying( should of taken this as a bad sign) . I freaked out and thought it was something I did but she apologized the next day and told me she was triggered, as it turns out two years before meeting me she was in a longterm relationship and a guy that was abusive both emotionally ,physically as well as mentally. He would degrade her during their moments of intimacy then apologize after ward , she had a Flashback but reassured me it had nothing to do with me so we took things slow as she was still in therapy. It was tough but because I loved her I believed once we got over this it would make our relationship stronger and for a while it honestly appeared that way. Fast forward another year and we’d gotten engaged ( first time intimacy also happened during this stage) , I was fortunate enough to be able to buy a house for us courtesy of inheritance from my late uncle . Things were going great and I half seriously suggested we plant a peach tree ( important for later on) to signify new beginnings and she was all for it.
We were wedded not long after that and quite frankly it was absolutely amazing. Of course we had our normal ups and downs like every married couple but I considered us more lucky because she always made it a point to never go to bed upset with each other and she would always point out gently if I did anything to upset her . Sometime later life basically happened and I was promoted at my job, it meant more pay but it also meant I would be traveling more for work conferences and business meetings. I noticed she had been getting down a lot more and wasn’t being as intimate as before , she would keep her phone close to her and even stopped gently addressing things that upset her. I tried to talk to her about it but she assured me that she was fine and this was a phase she was going through and having no reason to not trust her I let it go. She would sometimes go to her sister’s place and spend the night telling me she just needed a bit of girl time with her sister, the day I got that fateful phone call was the day she was meant to be keeping her sister company again.
I remember rushing into the hospital barely breathing and frantically asking about my wife when world’s most understanding and patient police officer sat me down to explain what happened. He told me he was a friend of my SIL and he happened to respond to a domestic disturbance call , he arrived on the scene to find a couple fighting. The supposed boyfriend was on top of the female punching her and she was screaming trying to scratch him , this didn’t make any sense to me because 1.) this had nothing to do with my wife because we’re married and 2.) literally every one who knew my wife knew she wouldn’t do that. He gave me a knowing look and placed his hand on my shoulder than told me to be very calm because said girlfriend was actually my wife. If it weren’t for the severity of the situation I would’ve laughed in his face but something in the way he said everything made me believe him , I then was ushered in by a nurse to see my wife and what greeted me to this day I still can hardly find the words to describe it. I just stood there for what seemed like an eternity then a doctor came it and explained her injuries to me . The jaw was slightly fractured , her left eye was completely swollen shut and had massive bruising covering half of her face aswell as 3 broken ribs . Then the doctor dropped another bomb and told me she was pregnant , I still couldn’t understand how this happened then I caught sight of her sister. She at first tried to avoid me but at the persuasion of her police officer friend she told her what she knew, it turns out my wife’s ex had gotten in contact with her five months ago, he was doing this redemption pyramid step thing where he would apologize to people he has wronged in order to clear his karma ( anyone else B.S meter going crazy right now). They began talking more then he convinced her to meet up for coffee and show her he was a changed man .
Obviously old feelings resurfaced coupled with the fact that he appeared changed now it soon developed into an emotional affair, my wife approached her sister for advice who told her to takes things slow and just get it out of her system if she needed to ,which then lead to a physical affair three months later.She actually told my wife that she should at least make peace with her ex in whatever form it may be and even offered to cover for my wife once in while. My SIL was in tears at this point and kept apologizing to me saying that she didn’t know about the abuse as my wife never told anyone other then me and her therapist at the time about it. I was numb , I just couldn’t feel anything and was absolutely dumbfounded by my wife’s actions. When my wife finally woke up I was there and she burst into tears upon seeing me. I spent the following months in zombie flight mode , there was individual counseling for her as well as marriage counseling for us at the strong urging of her family. In counseling she was surprisingly forthcoming about how it happened and how she absolutely hated herself for causing me pain, she mentioned how at one point on her way home from his place she actually fantasized about driving into the river because she smelt like him and didn’t want his scent to “ corrupt me” (however that made sense) , she said she the tried to end it but was too weak and only after learning that she was pregnant that it actually woke her up and made her realize that any further contact with this man was toxic to not only her but the unborn child aswell hence went to end things in person for good when he snapped on her. She became a shell of herself and developed a phobia for any other males but me, she one point she couldn’t even use the bathroom at night unless I was holding her hand ( sad right).
After the baby was born (son by the way) we got a paternity test and he was mine, but the more time I spent with her the more I realize I didn’t hate my wife , I actually loathed her . I couldn’t see the woman I married but instead saw his left overs each time I looked at her , I decided to leave because I was afraid I’d do something I’d regret and be exactly like her abusive ex. She bagged me not to leave and even made the ridiculous offer of giving me a “hall pass” as well as slapping her if I wanted to, I knew at this point I had to get out. She was actually very generous during the divorce , she moved back into her parents and signed a very well thought out co parenting plan issued by the courts.
Moving forward three years later and I meet my now fiancé by chance , I was in a book store with a buddy of mine and we were discussing Egyptian mythology when this beautiful woman approached me to correct me on my pronunciations of the Egyptian gods and cities. Needless to say immensely impressed by not only her understanding but also by the fact that she is Egyptian herself. We exchanged numbers which eventually lead us to dating, when I finally proposed to her it was actually in front of the preach tree I had plant years ago. I got down on one knee but before I got my answer she ran into the house then came out with a ring aswell. Turns out she was actually planning on proposing herself because she was madly in love with me and she just didn’t want any other woman to have me , my son in all his sweet child like innocence told his mother what happened because he was present when it happened. My ex literally showed up that night in the rain yelling about how could I propose to her ( my fiancé) in front of our tree and that this isn’t the end of us..
I am completely exhausted at this point, I cannot go NC because she is the mother of my child but she is basically harassing me and my fiancé. How do I convince her to move on , to get over her fear of men and not force me to get a restraining order.
Sorry it was long but I am really desperate.
Edit : Wanted to ask a question to the insightful women of reddit , something that still bugs me to this day is the fact that she even made time for her ex who took pleasure in destroying her only for her to suffer a much worse fate. Is it normal for the abused to want the attention of the abuser even if she might hate him ( something my ex said once)
Edit 2 : Forget to add this in the original post , when my fiancé presented me with the ring which she was gonna use to propose to me she had an engraving on the inner band which states “ to my pharaoh “ .Damn I love this woman.
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2020.09.10 13:34 StupidFatHobbit StupidFatHobbit's Filter v3.11.5 - Death of a Chaos Recipe

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Update Notes:

Normally I would never release an update four days before the league end and just roll these changes into the next leaguestart update but after what happened with Harvest's launch I want to go back to keeping the league launch updates as asbolutely minimal as possible. A large number of sections have been rewritten so I'm releasing this now to ensure there are no issues with Heist's launch. For those who want to start editing this filter feel free, I'll be making the Heist edits as small as possible so that they can easily be copied over without redownloading the entire fitler.
The most significant change of this update is the killing of the chaos recipe in General. This is going to be a controversial decision but at the end of the day the chaos recipe has been holding the General filter back by causing a massive amount of clutter in early maps and during any loot-intensive league content. Shrinking and fading out rares just isn't good enough. I haven't done it (outside of challenges) in years and I can't recommend it ever, even to new players. It's an utter waste of time outside of extremely specific scenarios, such as trying to get more chaos for Legion in SSF. From now on it will be disabled by default although I've made it quite easy to re-enable and given it it's own section to make it easy to find (22). Hopefully this will further the design goal of having General usable until red maps start (or at least early/mid yellow) instead of switching to Strict almost immediately upon getting to maps.
Major Changes and New Features:
  • General filter no longer shows chaos recipe rares by default. Toggle located in Section 22 (read the notes and delete the appropriate blocks) for those who still want to do it in currentyear. Note that this has replaced the General+ extension blocks which are no longer necessary.
  • Drastically reduced the number of 84+ bases that show by default, cutting about a third of the total. Previously I always tried to show at least one top base from every item class/archetype but this has resulted in too many "never pick up, ever" items showing. The total number has been reduced by roughly a third - for example all staves have been removed. A full list of cut bases is included in the comments by the main filtering blocks in section 10 for easy reference.
  • Completely rewrote flask levelling section, now uses arealevel instead of ilvl. Redid life/mana flask highlighting - more or less the same total amount of flasks still show except now only the current best tier of flasks have borders as well as now having icons (previously: best and 2nd best tier had borders, no icons). All flasks now use raindrops for icons instead of triangles. Defensive utility flasks have different minimap icons (pink) than from speed (purple) and offensive (yellow).
  • Moved all weapon and jewellery levelling sections from ilvl to arealevel. This more or less necessitated a rewrite of each section so I took the time to further modularize everything for easier deletion of unwanted sections i.e. caster is now split between wands and sceptres, melee axes and swords have been separated (with swords disabled by default). Due to the change there should be a lot less "item bleed" at transition levels - if you see the border that means it's currently the best. Remember that the intention, now more than ever, is that you delete the sections that aren't relevant to you. Things will be VERY spammy if you leave all archetypes enabled while levelling with General.
  • Strict levelling now has the most meta of each archetype enabled by default. Chaos dot and bleed for bows, 1h/2h axes, generic and spellslinger casters, pagan wands for summoners. Reminder that Strict levelling is designed for those levelling with tabula/goldrim/lochtonial/wanderlust where you will want to replace your weapons and eventually your gloves/boots. Use Uberstrict if you absolutely do not want to see anything other than flasks and rare jewellery while levelling.
Other Levelling Changes:
  • Bleed bow progression added, slightly different than phys bow. Delete the main phys bow blocks (and the chaos and ele bow blocks, obviously) if you're levelling bleed.
  • Changed how levelling weapon blocks handle early maps. Instead of top few bases being shown until 70, they all stop at 67 unless the base doesn't start dropping until 70 at which case it'll show for one arealevel only. Armor still goes to 70 for now but that section is next on the rewrite list (and also has not been converted to arealevel yet).
  • Caster daggers no longer show while levelling at all (unless caught by another block). Caster shields are now shown by default in strict levelling.
  • Extended 1-stat amulet extra highlighting level range through a3 and 2-stat through a5
  • Minimap icons on small chromes now shows through the entire levelling phase and stops at quarry
  • Magic items in general now stop showing at start of quarry instead of at start of maps
  • General and Strict now show white two-stone and amethyst rings in quarry, white/blue amethysts now show while levelling
  • Leather Belt and Coral Ring now retain minimap icon up through quarry in levelling phase
  • Extended minimap icons on rare jewellery during levelling phase up to 67 in gen, added same blocks to strict
  • Uber stops showing basic flasks when maps start instead of at t3 maps
  • Bismuth and all resist flasks (ruby/topaz/sapphire/amethyst) are now considered bottom tier util flasks
All Other Changes:
  • More corrupted items in the filter now use the very dark red solid bg (same styling as used by vaal gems). The only things that aren't on this yet are corrupted armor drops, I'll hopefully get that done soon. Adjusted various corrupted highlights.
  • All non-unique mentions of Harbinger Bow in the filter have been removed. Spine and Assassin bow are considered the top phys attack basetypes with Citadel being top for bleed.
  • Significantly reduced the number of atlas bases that have sound (only high droplevel ones do now)
  • Added "borderline" value for div cards that need sound in gen/strict but not Uber (basically just Loyalty for now). Considering simply disabling sound on basic div card tier next update
  • Divine Vessels and Offerings now use the wedge icon which is more or less supposed to represent quest/progression related items now
Minor Changes/Fixes:
  • Fixed matatl boots having a text color change instead of a border color change
  • Cut coral/paua amulets from guat, added Amethyst for Xopec and Guat
  • Large number of minor highlighting and base adjustments
  • Adjusted influenced highlighting to be more in tune with the current meta
  • A few minor div/unique tiering changes
As usual, the best way to stay up to date on the filter is to follow the forum thread or to add me ingame. With the filter's increasing popularity, the best way to ask me questions about it is over my stream twitch.tv/sfhobbit as I simply cannot type while playing. Any lengthy inquiries will always be directed to the stream if it is online. Since I keep getting asked I have also finally set up a donation link for those who want to support the filter.
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2020.09.10 11:34 Nontimebomala98 "The Tempest" a mystical experience with Salvia 20x from an autistic, intermediary experienced user.

"What seest thou else in the dark backwards and abysm of time?
Drug(s) taken: Salvia 20x extract, 5g Kratom, 1mg Alprazolam. Dose: 18mg (+/-2mg) via bowl and a blowtorch lighter Weight: 120 lbs Date of experience: September 3rd, 4:40AM.
Diagnosis: let me first start of by saying that I have Aspergers (AKA high functionin autism), PTSD (though not officially diagnosed). I've experienced some horrible shit that still haunts me to this day and even my own therapist told me PTSD in my case could be very likely. I will admit i was not always a good person as well and I did hurt people and did things that still haunt me as well.I also have ADHD, and I find it interesting that for me? Salvia is euphoric even at lower doses and I've almost always had good experiences . Most of my lower dose experimentation had actually produced euphoria too. In the past I had severe issues with depersonalizion and derealization as a method of dealing with trauma, so I didn't touch dissos of ANY kind for a long time until I was sure I could handle it and i slowly worked my way up with cannabis (i used to have bad psychosis like hallucinations, freak outs and green outs even on seemingly lower doses with a low tolerance), Amanita Muscaria and Pantherina, lower doses of DXM for chronic pain management (I also have Scleroderma, a super rare autoimmune disease), and then when I went down to South Carolina where it was legal (I live in NC), I decided "screw it...what do I have to lose?" Its safe, nontoxic, and unlike deliriants, where almost every trip is overwhelmingly bad/unpleasant at best and pure nightmare fuel with spiders and shadow people, though I know of rare instances of mystical Datura/DPH experience. But unlike those drugs? Salvia on account of being both an atypical dissociative and atypical psychdelic, IS actually more than capable of producing a powerful, profound, beautiful, meaningful experience if dose, set, setting and mental mindset are all proper. Though I will admit it is strange my experience lines up with trip reports that are from powerful psychedelic tryptamines, notably 5-MeO-DMT, but also DMT, and its potent psychdelic sister, DPT. It seemed to have more in common with those drugs rather than the traditional "mind-fuckery" of Salvia. Perhaps that was a result of Aspergers too?
About two weeks ago or so I had been struggling with anxiety, pain, and bad memories. it progressively was getting worse and worse, up to the point where i tried to fall asleep and had horrible PTSD flashbacks for what felt like an eternity. I had already taken a Xanax prior to this, to try to calm my mind down, and I took a huge risk/gamble. I didn't wanna take more Xanax because of how addictive that stuff is, but I needed to clear my mind so I can go to sleep and I had nothing else that would do that. So I tried to shut it down with Salvia, but with a lower dose. I went outside on a very nice night with clear stars and a truly beautiful full moon, and measured exactly 18 milligrams on my scale (so about a +/-2mg margin of error). I loaded the bowl up, and reached for the torch lighter, took some deep calming breaths before embarking on my journey, and when i was ready, I brought the torch down to the plant material, and smoked it all in one big hit. I set the pipe down, and within ten seconds, I felt sharp but not necessarily unpleasant vibrations going up my legs until they reached my neck. After this point? Anything below my head ceased to exist and I felt a profound sense of "salvia gravity" pulling me upwards, like some kind of alien tractor beam. I closed my eyes, realizing that I had lost contact with my own body. It was difficult to recognize it as my own. But then i felt this sensation of being stretched and morphed into the visual objects and geometry that i had been seeing behind closed eyes. I saw my body transform into looked like a five of six pointed star, which would erupt and explode into a starburst of colors like fireworks. After each explosion? more points were added to the star over and over, this process happened extremely fast, so fast that it seemed to be constantly evolving as one image, like a minigun (a six barrel rotating gatling gun used by the US military known for it's extreme rate of fire, you've likely seen it in films such as Terminator and Predator, and video games such as Call of Duty and Fallout) Basically the rate of fire is so high it sounds like a single rip of shots to the human ear, these exploding popping fireworks and additional points added to the star occurred so fast that it appeared as one constant movement faster than the eyes can see, almost like a single image that was changing so fast that it was difficult to keep up with, but amazingly, I could keep up with it somewhat! Afterwards the stars had so many points they were no longer stars but complex, beautiful, geometric, intricate patterns, like a bunch of gears turning all in unison not dissimilar to that of a fine mechanical wristwatch. These patterns kept self multiplying like the points on the star at first it was nonsensical, but then I realize these patterns were the form my body had taken on, I had shed my "physical" body and transcended into something much higher, much more mystical. I turned into raw energy, atoms, eons, dark matter, the atoms being split as fast as they were created, like i was watching "the big bang" unfold before my very eyes. It was like i had been pulled through a relay that left my body behind, stripped all the energy out of it, and shot it into space at incalculable speeds.
Then I saw these patterns were spiraling upwards, in a rotational manner like a tornado, and then I realized....my body took on the form of a double helix...these beautiful patterns that crackled like exploding fireworks. On every beat of the song I was listening to (Evigt Mörker-Hogre) these helixes kept splitting and multiplying simultaneously and gave off a dazzling array of colors. Reds, greens, yellows, purples, all manner of colors, as well as a color that I cannot describe, like a mixture of pink and blue being the most simplistic way to put it but it was like all the colors merged into one, and then colors that don't have a name being present as well. Heh...male and female. My body turned into a giant helical strand of DNA that kept self multiplying rapidly and constantly generated new mutations and alleles. 2, 4, 16, 64....until it became uncountable, my body literally had been broken down to the atomic level, in the form of DNA strands, as if I had just seen the evolution of how mankind came to be, this combined with the sensation of watching the big bang go down? I felt all of these things weren't random at all, it felt like everything is tied together by forces we cannot even begin to understand...ironically I've witnessed Chaos Theory in my own life, and I believe that Chaos Theory is more than theory, but a scientific law, and here i am watching this chain reaction of DNA being replicated over and over again, one strand of human DNA that successfully "swims across" can completely determine the outcome of the child's life, race, color, personality, mental health everything, and its all one big chain reaction. I felt as if I became the universe, and the universe became myself. I did feel the presence of something or someone else there with me. Unfortunately i didn't get to meet the machine elves/aliens/entities, but that's absolutely fine. Perhaps some things are better left unexplored, I was laughing my ass off during the last minute or so I had in "Sally Land", but it felt like an eternity. I left this reality behind with my eyes closed, and ill admit I did have significant memory loss of what i experienced for about a minute or two here, but when I opened my eyes in the last few minutes? I saw some fantastic morphing, recursion, the entire environment connecting together and becoming one, depth ceasing to exist and everything became 2D and somewhat reminiscent of 8-bit, like the old Mario games, not unlike my prior experiences. I could see faces, black and white elaborate patterns in the trees, the bushes and the hills with my eyes open and the trees provided an illusion of the environment being overgrown with leaves, like a jungle that is constantly growing and consuming everything around it. I've experienced these similar OEV effects on Salvia before but this trip was far stronger and far more profound. Either way my body ceased to exist. When i started to come back? It felt like the alien tractor beam that pulled me up, had flipped the switch, and I felt like i had been thrown from the great beyond, free falling back into my own body. The sensation of free falling was every bit as intense as feeling like i had been pulled from my body in some kind of cosmic tornado. When i looked up at the moon? There was a cloud above it that eerily looked like a hand, and when i was tripping? I swear it was the hand of God, or whatever you want to call it, had released his grip dropping my spirit into my body. All this occurred within about ten minutes, it felt like i had been up there for days. But seeing myself deconstructed to the subatomic level like that? And witnessing what can be only described as the greatest firework show I've ever seen? It almost made me cry it was so beautiful, just calmly sitting out there and staring at the moon. I walked back inside and slept like a baby. After the trip? I really needed that and I was so happy. I even went as far as to pick up the bag of Salvia and said "I can't believe I'm saying this, but thank you. I'm glad you showed me a beautiful thing rather than terror and disorientation". Some say plants, especially entheogenic botanicals, have spirits of their own. It felt like it was a respectful thing to do afterwards. I had a great next day, and I'm still experiencing some antidepressant effects that are still present as i type this. I plan on going easy with the Salvia, if not at all, because I dont wanna ruin such a wonderful, magnificent experience with a hasty decision to visit Sally Land and instead visit "Sally Hell". Even days after, listing to Högre by Evigt Mörker reminded me of my trip, especially when I smoked weed to go lay down and relax. I still got chills listening to that song and I could close my eyes and remember my trip like it was yesterday, even getting some mild CEVs. A quote from Shakespeare's "The Tempest" came to mind when I got those chills . "What seest thou else in the dark backwards and abysm of time?", recalling the fondness of my experience, and also...no longer experiencing flashbacks since that day, with rather potent antidepressant effects have lasted for nearly a week.
I may be one of the few people who have had a truly mystical and beautiful Salvia trip, as I know many find it confusing, unpleasant, terrifying or just plain bizarre. Perhaps autistics DO react to KOR agonists differently after all. But by God I am grateful i had this trip and I experienced these long lasting antidepressant and shorter lasting, but still lasting longer than the drug itself, analgesic effects for my horrible neuropathic pain. I hope you all enjoyed this! Feel free to ask any questions and give me feedback and I'll try to remember as best I can. Also, if you guys are interested I can put a photo of the hand shaped cloud over the moon on Imagr or Photobucket or something like that. This was a rare, mystical Salvia experience that honestly? I had been looking for since the first time I got my hands on the stuff. And now that these powerful effects still remain to a lesser degree? I think I just had one of the most profound, stunning, otherworldly experiences of my life! Even if it was not a breakthrough? I WAS ripped out of my body and was literally inches away from one! Thank you for reading!
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2020.09.08 06:12 spraypraythrowaway A 31 year old incel spills his guts. I just want to be loved.

I am a 31 year old white American male. I came from an ordinary upper-middle class suburban background and got a bachelor's degree at a large state university, after which I served for 6 years in the Marine Corps. I was an outside sales rep/account manager for a large chemical company in the Los Angeles area. Currently, I'm employed earning $84K/year at a small, but highly-regarded management consulting firm. I am physically fit and well-presented. I have a good relationship with my family who lives less than an hour away. I've neither hit nor threatened nor stalked any woman in any way. My criminal record is negligible (underage drinking, speeding tickets, etfc). Besides being generally "quirky", I suffer from ADD & mild depression, both of which are well managed through prescribed medication.
I live on my own in a spacious 2-bedroom apartment near a major American city. I'm really into scuba diving, and spend many a weekend exploring the various shipwrecks off NJ. I've also gone as far as NC and the Red Sea in the Middle East in search of shipwrecks. Wreck diving is just kind of my thing. I also train 3-4 days a week in Thai Boxing at a local gym, which I love not only for the exercise but also as the social outlet.
I have a pretty closely knit group of friends in my immediate area. I also have two other, non-overlapping groups of friends related to diving and Muay Thai. Beyond these friend groups, I am involved in a couple of local charity efforts which require several hours per month each. So I have no shortage of connections to my community. I might lay at home out of boredom on any given Saturday but, when I do, it's not for lack of anyone to hang out with.
And yet, I am 31 years old, and I have only had one girlfriend. It lasted 2 months, while I was living in Los Angeles (2015-2017). That is literally it. Years upon years of trying to be somebody's boyfriend, leveraging everything from PUA systems to "just be yourself" and everything in between, this is all I've attained. And so briefly, too. She was lovely, and beautiful, but after two months she simply couldn't stand me anymore (too much being myself, of that I'm sure). I have not known a woman's touch, of any sort, since.
And so I am alone. Very alone. It's been 3 years this month since the last time I had sex...but sex barely interests me anymore. What I want is intimacy. Fortunately, however, being alone this long has rendered me exceedingly numb. I am ossified, of sorts: the pangs of 'feels' that used to hit me right the chest seldomdo, anymore. It's like an emotional armor I've developed. I am grateful for this, otherwise every wedding or "bring the spouses and kids" company event would be a veritable minefield of feels. But this armor does not at a; allay my desire for that very human need: that of a partner.
I'm sad, folks. I'm really, really, sad. I feel like I've done everything a man is supposed to do in life up to this point. I found a professional path for myself, served my country both inside America and overseas, I'm a smart guy who pursues intellectual hobbies while also helping mentor younger kids. Shit, I even foster cats....I have 2-3 cats living at my apartment at any given time. Not to mention my reserves to a local fast water rescue / dive recovery unit, which helps people caught in cash running waters or recovering those who have drowned.
After all this, at age 31, I can't get a date. I've poured hundreds of dollars into all these dating apps and I have nothing but tears to show for it. Most, never want to meet. Of those that to (and of which I am frequently, but not always, smitten) they inevitably ghost. These various apps have become toxic to me, just as they are increasingly seen as my only asset.
I'm lost and alone, friends. I'm so tired of being like this. I want a girlfriend, and eventually a wife and a family. I honestly do not how much farther I can go on.
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2020.09.06 18:30 JerSucks ITZY Weekly Discussion & Recap for August 31st, 2020 - September 6th, 2020 (Not Shy Week 3)

Weekly Recap for August 31, 2020 - September 6, 2020

Welcome to the ITZY Weekly Discussion & Recap!
In this thread we compile everything ITZY has done this week for people who can't quite keep up with it all!
This post now also serves as our Weekly MIDZY Discussion Thread! That means this is an anything goes discussion thread. Feel free to talk about anything you'd like with other MIDZY! All we ask is that you keep it safe for work!

Not Shy Week 3 Highlights

Date Title
200831 Not Shy MV Behind #2
200901 Not Shy (Dance Practice - Part Switch Ver.)
200901 Not Shy (Studio Choom BE ORIGINAL Behind)
200902 Not Shy (Dance Practice - Villain Ver.)
200902 IDOL LEAGUE- Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4
200903 Not Shy @ M Countdown
200904 Not Shy (Dance Practice - Random Speed Ver.)
200904 Not Shy @ Music Bank
200905 Not Shy @ Music Core
200906 Not Shy (Dance Practice - Hanbok Ver.)
200906 Not Shy @ Inkigayo
200906 Not Shy @ KBS Open Concert
200906 Wannabe @ KBS Open Concert

News & Articles

Date Title
200903 ITZY take third win for Not Shy on M Countdown + Encore
200906 Not Shy MV hits 50M views!

Social Media

Twitter
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200901 Hear Not Shy on Apple's 'The A-List: Kpop'
200901 After Yeji's Video Call Event
200902 After Yuna's Video Call Event
200902 After Ryujin's Video Call Event
200902 After Lia's Video Call Event
200903 Pics from 낫량특집 & Villain Dance Practice
200903 After Third Win for Not Shy!
200903 After Chaeryeong's Video Call Event
200904 After Not Shy Stage at Music Bank
200904 After Yeji's Video Call Event
200905 After Not Shy Stage at Music Core
200905 After Yuna's Video Call Event
200906 After Not Shy Stage @ Inkigayo
200906 After Ryujin's Video Call Event
Instagram
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200831 Yeji Update
200831 Chaeryeong Update
200831 Ryujin Update
200831 Yeji Update 2
200902 Yeji Update
200902 Yuna Update
200902 Yuna Update 2
200903 Ryujin Update
200903 Yeji Update
Misc
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200831 M2MPD Twitter Update with ITZY 1
200831 M2MPD Twitter Update with ITZY 1
200901 SpotifyKDaebaek Twitter Update with ITZY
200902 _mymusictaste Twitter Update with Yuna
200902 _mymusictaste Instagram Update with Yuna
200902 gooddog_official Instagram Update with Yeji & Lia
200903 MNetMcountdown Twitter Update with ITZY
200903 _mymusictaste Twitter Update with Chaeryeong
200903 _mymusictaste Instagram Update with Chaeryeong
200904 volumeup891 Instagram Update with ITZY
200904 volumeup891 Instagram Update with ITZY 2
200904 volumeup891 Instagram Update with ITZY 3
200904 _mymusictaste Twitter Update with Ryujin
200904 _mymusictaste Instagram Update with Ryujin
200905 _mymusictaste Twitter Update with Lia
200905 _mymusictaste Instagram Update with Lia
200905 _mymusictaste Twitter Update with Yeji
200905 _mymusictaste Instagram Update with Yeji

Videos

Performances
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200902 Not Shy @ IDOL LEAGUE
200903 Not Shy @ M Countdown
200904 Not Shy @ Music Bank
200905 Not Shy @ Music Core
200906 Not Shy @ Inkigayo
200906 Not Shy @ KBS Open Concert
200906 Wannabe @ KBS Open Concert
Official Videos
Date Title Thread
200831 Not Shy MV Behind #2
200901 Not Shy (Dance Practice - Part Switch Ver.)
200902 Not Shy (Dance Practice - Villain Ver.)
200904 Not Shy (Dance Practice - Random Speed Ver.)
200906 Not Shy (Dance Practice - Hanbok Ver.)
Variety
Date Title Thread
200902 IDOL LEAGUE- Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4
200903 ITZY x LINE FRIENDS - Creative Academy EP.04
V LIVE
Date Title
200901 ITZY X LINE FRIENDS Homework Live 💕
Misc
Date Title
200901 Not Shy (Studio Choom BE ORIGINAL Behind)
200903 Imagine Your Korea (CF Behind)
200903 Behind The Scenes @ M Countdown
200904 Image Your Korea (ITZY and the Kingdom Friend's first day as ambassadors of Korea Tourism

Other

Date Title
200904 Not Shy (200829 Music Core Performance Pics)

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2020.08.28 16:43 japplefield USF Football // Important Season Ticket Member Update

[Email from USF Athletics]
Bulls Fans,
Thank you for your continued support and for your patience and understanding as we work through the many challenges to give our student-athletes and coaches an opportunity to compete this fall and provide a safe, comfortable and entertaining of an environment as possible for our fans.
The current pandemic has created many uncertainties and necessitated numerous changes for the 2020 USF Football season, and we know you have many questions. We will attempt to answer many of them here and will continue to communicate and provide more answers as soon as we are able to do so.
As we have all seen over the past several months, the situation can be very fluid and we will continue to monitor any events that may occur both locally and nationally that may require changes to the plan for the 2020 season and inform you of those as soon as possible.

Season Ticket Member Options

For 2020 Football
We understand the challenges football game attendance may present this season and that this is not the home season many envisioned when they renewed or purchased new season tickets. With that in mind and with great appreciation for the continued, and in many instances long-term, support of our season ticket members, below we have outlined options for: 1) crediting your current season ticket purchase to the 2021 season, 2) donating your 2020 football season ticket purchase to the Bulls Club, or 3) receiving a complete refund on your 2020 football season ticket purchase.

Credit toward the 2021 Season

We are hopeful many of you will chose to credit your 2020 season ticket purchase to the 2021 season, when we are excited to take on the Florida Gators among six home games in Raymond James Stadium.
With this option, your entire 2020 season ticket purchase will be automatically credited to the 2021 USF Football season. There are many benefits to choosing to credit your ticket purchase to 2021:
• You will keep your 2020 season seat location(s) for the 2021 season, and you will be fully paid for the 2021 season. • As a Season Ticket Member, you will receive presale access to single-game tickets this year for home games played in the 2020 season before the general public can purchase tickets. • You will receive a special season ticket member discount on the purchase of single-game tickets for this home season.
If you are not interested in keeping your seats and crediting your 2020 season ticket purchase to the 2021 season, we have additional options:

Bulls Club Donation

Season Ticket Members have the option of donating their 2020 ticket purchase to the Bulls Club Annual Fund. The contribution would be tax-deductible, and Season Ticket Members who choose this option will receive double priority points for their ticket amount. With USF Athletics in need of your support now more than ever, we greatly appreciate those who choose this option to support the Bulls Club!
To donate your ticket purchase, please visit here to inform us by September 7th.
For more information, please contact Stephen Hammond in the Bulls Club office at [email protected] or by phone at (561) 414-9628.

Refund

You may elect to receive a full refund on your 2020 Football season ticket purchase. If you would like to request a refund, please visit here to fill out a form by September 7th.

Schedule Updates

As other conferences and schools have made decisions regarding their ability to play this fall, we are sure you have noticed that originally scheduled games at Texas (Sept. 5), Bethune-Cookman (Sept. 12) and vs. Nevada (Sept. 19) have been canceled.
We are excited to announce we have worked hard to replace two of those games and now have an 11-game schedule for 2020. The entire schedule can be viewed HERE.
We will kick off the 2020 season with a home game vs. The Citadel on Sept. 12, which will serve as the debut game for first-year head coach Jeff Scott.
We were also thrilled to recently announce a new three-game series vs. Notre Dame that will begin this season on Sept. 19 in South Bend and will conclude with the Fighting Irish coming to play in Raymond James Stadium and a return trip for the Bulls to Notre Dame Stadium on two future dates that have yet to be determined. We are excited to add the Fighting Irish to our lineup of future nonconference opponents coming to Tampa that includes Florida, Alabama, Louisville, Miami, NC State, Boise State and several more in the coming years.

Home Game Attendance

In the interest of providing the safest and best experience for our fans, we have made the decision to not have fans at the first home game on Sept. 12.
We do plan to welcome fans to our remaining four home games of the 2020 season, if state and local officials deem it appropriate for us to do so at that time. Those games are:
• Saturday, Oct. 10 vs. ECU
• Friday, Oct. 23 vs. Tulsa
• Saturday, Nov. 21 vs. Navy
• Friday, Nov. 27 vs. UCF in The War on I-4
Season Ticket Members will have access to a special presale to purchase tickets to those games beginning on Sept. 8. More information regarding the presale will be sent next week.
A reminder that all USF home and American Athletic Conference football games will be broadcast as part of our new American Athletic Conference rights agreement with ESPN, and all USF Football games can be heard on our Bulls Unlimited digital radio network and on our flagship radio station 95.3 WDAE.

New for the 2020 Football Season

Mobile Tickets

In order to best ensure safety and convenience for fans entering Raymond James Stadium, we have transitioned to mobile ticketing beginning this fall. More information regarding our mobile ticketing app and accessing tickets on your mobile device will be coming shortly.

Reduced Seating and Parking Capacity at Raymond James Stadium

In partnership with the Tampa Sports Authority and the Tampa Bay Buccaneers, we are establishing a physically distanced environment for our fans to enjoy games this fall. While this means there will be changes in capacity and locations in both stadium seating and its surrounding parking lots, it is our goal to provide fans the best possible options to see the Bulls play at Ray Jay this season.

Enhanced Safety Measures

The Tampa Sports Authority has made several enhancements to Raymond James Stadium to help create the safest possible experience for fans attending games this season. We will have more information concerning all these upgrades, but below are some of the highlights:

CASHLESS:

All transactions will now be cashless at Raymond James Stadium. Should you forget to bring cash, reverse ATM machines will be available throughout the stadium that will allow you to load cash onto a card that may be used at stadium vendors.

NO BAGS:

In order to limit the transfer of items between stadium staff and fans as well as to expedite entry and reduce lines, no bags larger than a small clutch will be permitted to be brought into the stadium this fall.

FACE MASKS:

Face masks will be required to be worn by all fans and all stadium staff at all times upon entering Raymond James Stadium.

HYGIENE UPGRADES:

Upgrades have been made to increase the number and accessibility of hand-washing stations and sanitation kiosks throughout the stadium.

PEDESTAL SCANNERS:

Pedestal ticket scanners with tap-and-go technology have been installed at every Raymond James Stadium gate, eliminating the exchange of phones between stadium staff and fans and speeding stadium entry.
Further information will be communicated to you soon.

QUESTIONS?

For additional questions or concerns you may have concerning the 2020 USF Football season, please email us at [email protected] or call and/or text us at 1-800-Go-Bulls.
Many of our staff members remain working remotely to help provide our student-athletes a safe environment in the Lee Roy Selmon Athletics Center to prepare this season.
We hope to see you in the stands at Raymond James this fall, and we truly appreciate your continued support and understanding.
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2020.08.27 03:13 kingbabyhead Audio production rig

Greetings all!
This is my first time posting here. This will also be my first time building a PC though I have experience swapping some components and rebuilding a few PS3's.
I have recently stepped up the amount of audio (music) production and editing I have been doing and am finding my current system lacking because of the artifacts in my recordings, excessive latency, need for larger buffer sizes, and the noise it generates.
It's been many years since I bought a new PC. It is my understanding that even a modest current PC will accomplish most, if not all, of what I need, but I'd like to go somewhat high end since I tend to use computers for a long time before replacing. Going this route, I also hope, will make it easier to upgrade pieces as needed down the road.
Template follows. Happy to answer any questions you may have for me.
My sincere thanks for anyone willing to give this one a shot.
What will you be doing with this PC? Be as specific as possible, and include specific games or programs you will be using.

Mainly using as a Digital Audio Workstation. I'll be using Reaper as my software. May be doing some video editing with Pinnacle software. (but would definitely be used far less this way)

What is your maximum budget before rebates/shipping/taxes?

Probably 2K, but this is more a preference than a figure set in stone.

When do you plan on building/buying the PC? Note: beyond a week or two from today means any build you receive will be out of date when you want to buy.

Soon, but not immediately. I'm okay with a build being a little out of date when I buy. I'm also open to waiting a bit if there's something new and great about to be released.

What, exactly, do you need included in the budget? (ToweOS/monitokeyboard/mouse/etc)

Tower, OS, and that's probably it. I can figure out the peripherals on my own.

Which country (and state/province) will you be purchasing the parts in? If you're in US, do you have access to a Microcenter location?

U.S., I'm in NC. Honestly, not sure what Microcenter is or where they are.

If reusing any parts (including monitor(s)/keyboard/mouse/etc), what parts will you be reusing? Brands and models are appreciated.

I am considering cannibalizing the PSU out of my existing PC, because the original gave out and I replaced it with what I think is a pretty good unit. You be the judge though. If it is better for me to get something else, let me know. The one I have is EVGA SuperNOVA 850 G2, 80+ GOLD 850W, Fully Modular
As for peripherals, I'll buy new if needed. I welcome suggestions, but this part seems more manageable to me.

Will you be overclocking? If yes, are you interested in overclocking right away, or down the line? CPU and/or GPU?
I don't really have interest in getting too complicated maxing the speed. Give me fast, but simple.
Are there any specific features or items you want/need in the build? (ex: SSD, large amount of storage or a RAID setup, CUDA or OpenCL support, etc)

I'm thinking SSD(s) will help the rig run more quietly. It should have ample storage since files can be big. I'd like plenty of RAM or at least lots of future expansion capability.

Do you have any specific case preferences (Size like ITX/microATX/mid-towefull-tower, styles, colors, window or not, LED lighting, etc), or a particular color theme preference for the components?

Full tower, for ability to expand. Don't need anything super fancy, as far as looks go, but the less boring looking, the better.
I have heard that there are cases designed specifically for quiet running. If this is true, that would be very helpful for my purposes.

Do you need a copy of Windows included in the budget? If you do need one included, do you have a preference?

Yes, I assume I need this. No preference that I know of.

Extras
I'd like a video card capable of supporting three monitors.
I need USB 2 ports for my audio interface and possibly digital piano. Would also like USB 3 ports, wifi and wired port, at least one writable blu-ray drive. Fan should be quiet.
THANK YOU!
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2020.08.27 02:36 LouisParadise I met a guy on tinder 2 years ago. He left for a little over a year bc of issues. He recently came back and things feel a bit different.

I (M29) met this guy (M25) on Tinder and we hit it off in. Fall 2018. We texted everyday and say each other every weekend, or just about every weekend. For 7 months. We clicked, we have fun times together and I fell pretty hard for him. I was even considering in making him my bf, but I wanted to wait a year to see what happens. (This was a big deal to me bc I had never dated anybody and I’m pretty much a virgin and this was the first time i had met anyone whom I actually really liked. Actually I fell in love with him)
In mid 2019 he had an argument with his roommate and she kicked him out. I met his roommate during our time together and she seemed nice. She’s also on the LGBT spectrum. Anyways, He moved his stuff out and it was in his car as he was staying with a friend he knows. One night he asked if he could spend the night at my place bc his friend was having her bf over, so I said yes. I was living with my family at the time and he didn’t seem to mind it. He comes over, spends the night and updates me on what has happened. Apparently at that time, he had lost the keys to his car and he was having his mom mail his spare from his home state of NC. During our convo, he said that he was concerned of his car being stolen and said that if that were to happen that he’d just go back to NC and come back again a few months later. The next time I hear from him is about a day later he’s FaceTiming me from the airport (his parents bought him a plane ticket) saying that his car was stolen with his things in it. It was an old car, and when I asked him if he was going to report it stolen, he said he wasn’t going to worry about it I guess bc he had a warrant for a speeding ticket. (I checked. He did.) So he leaves for NC from TX in May 2019. During his absence we are still texting but it’s noticeably different. When I text he doesn’t text back if at all, and doesn’t answer hardly any questions. I’m left on read several times and had racing thoughts ever since. In July, the day before my birthday, I text him and he said that he decided that he was going to stay in his home state and that I should see other people and move on. This hit me especially hard. I cry, I don’t eat, I’m depressed. Luckily, the crying lasted a week. I figure that’s it, I may never see him again, but secretly I want him back. We are still talking sporadically for the rest of the year and into this year. We have occasional FTs. “I miss you, I miss you too” “Do you have a bf?” “No, do you?” “No.”
So, July 2020 the week of my birthday, he surprises me by sending me a screenshot of his new address that’s a few miles away from me. I’m in shock, and excited but I don’t want to get my hopes up too much. He arrived last week Friday. Over a year later and we see each other for the first time. We hug and chat. We have a short kiss. He asked me what I’ve been up to and I say running the trails, working, etc. I ask him the same and he gives me kind of a generic answer. He asks me if I have any plans for the weekend and I say “no” hoping to spend it with him. (Before, we couldn’t spend a whole weekend together bc I always worked weekends and didn’t always have time off unless I requested it) He says “okay” and that he’ll text me. I offer him a pair of sandals that I have that are brand new and he says “yes” he wants them. I also have some T-shirts that I’m getting rid of and he said that he’ll take them too. Saturday morning, I text him asking what size shirt he wears, (I forgot) and he doesn’t reply all day. On Sunday, he read it and has not replied since. It’s happening again...
I’m wondering what’s going on. Maybe he’s still trying to get settled. It’s been almost a week that he’s been back. Maybe he’s busy. He’s not working bc he told me he has to find a job. Why is he ignoring me? Am I making myself too available? I don’t want to smother him, but I don’t text him much in the first place. I do it casually. Is he losing interest? At this point I kinda feel used. When he got here, I gave him (and his purchases) a ride from the store to his new place. I want to meet up in person and ask what’s up, but the biggest thing I’m afraid of is him telling me that he doesn’t want to be with me. That’ll crush me and I’m back where I was emotionally like last year. This whole ordeal has taken an emotional and mental toll on me. Idk how I’ll cope if this happens again. He seems fine though. I tend to overthink things. Am I too much in my head about it? I feel like I’m leaving things out but I’m not trying to write a book. I think this is enough info for you guys to get the gist. Feel free to ask any questions.
FYI: We never made anything official. We both agreed a few months in that we should take it slow and see where it goes. If anyone cares, there was no penetration on either part. There almost was but it was halted and it was put off for another time, so we did oral a lot.
TLDR; I met a guy on tinder 2 years ago. He left for a little over a year bc of issues, but he came back and things feel different.
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2020.08.26 19:50 Throwaway72779673 His true personality comes out

Been separated for two months now. He cheated, I caught his online messages and I left him. He's since had NC, blocked me on all his socials, but I still have friends who are on his friends list on FB. She keeps an eye on his page, in case he says or does something off. Now there are comments back and forth with women and childhood buds of his on his post about women at the pool, how "she was a cutey, but a little young for his taste. Don't want our first date to be at a Chuck E Cheese" and " it's all about pulling her hair back, making her back arch". Shit like that. And was going back and forth about women being intelligent is a turn on? Really? What a fucking douchebag. You HAD an intelligent woman, you married her. You cheated on her. At least have the class to wait until you were divorced before posting shit like that to your public page. Guess this was his true personality all along. Just kept it in check while I was around? What a pig. Just stick to whores. More your speed.
Sorry, I am so angry right now.
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2020.08.24 20:41 thisisaspare88 Everything about Rama Works KARA in one thread

Before I get into this. I'm still new to the Mechanical Keyboards community, so I've been using Rama's website and Instagram for info.
I HOPE that the sales period will be from the 1st of September - 30th of September (though they've mentioned "end of August" multiple times)
Price: $160
There will be keycaps also releasing but a little later with double shot legends (not at the same time as they keyboard) 1 2 3 4
There are 4 separate mouldings; the main enclosure, the switch-plate, the backplate and the base. Which can be interchanged with other colours to make a unique looking keyboard.
"The KARA is compatible with the Internal Weight & Dampener. The cases will be available in translucent and opaque housings." I'm not sure if it comes with one (I think that it wont) or if you have to purchase separately.
The colours for the enclosure that have been teased so far;
Threaded inserts will be silver.
Backplates will come in a variety of colours as well as have their MUTE mounting system here (rubber edges allowing for reduced vibrations creating a more dull sound when typing?), they look like they're slightly transparent.
They're using the M60-A pcb format which is stated here
Installation of switches will (not 100% but seeing as its using an M60-A PCB) be like this
On manufacturing times:
"With the nature of how this product is manufactured, we can anticipate a much quicker turnaround time in production and are excited to see how this keyboard will be customised and made their own."
"In more enlightening news, as our factories have expanded its machining capacity - this means that we can produce products quicker and assign machines to specific tasks. Also, introducing new keyboards that use different, more efficient processes - like KARA. We can aim to deliver products in a much tighter timeline"
Packaging: Here is the box art. Here is another. All by talented Janne Iivonen
Things I am hoping for (other than the length of time it will be available...)
Anyway, I've seen a few threads on this but a lot of people asking questions with not many answers. I hope this helps? I'm really excited for this and really want to get one. I know that Novel Keys will be releasing the NK65 Milkshake edition, which looks amazing (as do the switch colours), decisions decisions.
If you have any info to add to this, let me know and I'll update this. But we find out in the next 7 days (hopefully).
Edit: Not sure what flare to use.
Edit 2: confirmed for September but no date is set. They gave an update at the end of August saying "in a couple of weeks"...it's been a couple of weeks and still nothing. A part of me thinks they'll pop up when the novel keys board drops or the last day of September.
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2020.08.24 13:06 Megan_Dawn R/FANTASY'S 2020 TOP LGBTQA+ BOOKS VOTING RESULTS

The 2020 top LGBTQA+ voting results post is never late, nor is it early. It arrives precisely when it means to. Which is now, apparently. I do appreciate the patience everyone, and next year I promise not to hold the voting at the height of a pandemic and the same week I get a copy of animal crossing (hit me up if you wanna visit my island!).
The voting post can be found here, and the database of collated votes is here. Please note that I can only vouch for the books that actually made it into this post; there could be books in the database that don't fit at all.
So here we have it! Our sub's favourite books featuring a main POV character who lands somewhere on the LGBTQA+ spectrum. Like any good mother I couldn't possibly play favourites (The Tarot Sequence. The Tarot Sequence is my favourite), I'm just so pleased to see so many fantastic books in one place, and even more excited to dive into the ones that are new to me! Weep for our TBRs, friends. Weep for them.
29 votes
This Is How You Lose The Time War by Amal El-Mohtar and Max Gladstone Lesbian
When two elite warriors— standing on opposing sides of a war stretching across space and time— become penpals, the rivalry between them starts to shift into something else.
27 votes
Wayfarers by Becky Chambers Lesbian
A young woman hiding one or two secrets takes a job on an old spaceship, and discovers that sometimes families aren’t made; they’re found.
25 votes
The Locked Tomb by Tamsyn Muir Lesbian
The Emperor needs a necromancer, and Harrowhark , Reverend Daughter of the Ninth House and bone witch extraordinaire, would super like to be that necromancer. But without Gideon, she’ll fail. And Gideon... is currently packing up her dirty magazines and planning an escape…
21 votes
The Masquerade by Seth Dickinson Lesbian
When you’re as crazy smart as Baru Cormorant the issue is not will you be able to rise to the top of the society that colonised your people and take them down from the inside, it’s will you be able to do without becoming a monster yourself? (No. The answer is no).
20 votes
The Song of Achilles by Madeline Miller Gay
A retelling Achilles’ ill-fated destiny with Troy, told from Patroclus’ pov. Very beautiful. Much heartbreak.
17 votes
The Priory of the Orange Tree by Samantha Shannon Lesbian
An absolute honking chonker of a book full of wonderfully detailed worldbuilding, if that’s your thing. And also an unwed queen beset on all sides by assassins, and the forbidden-magic wielding lady-in-waiting who’s keeping her alive. You know. If that’s your thing.
Machineries of Empire by Yoon Ha Lee Gay, Lesbian & Trans
Look, I know it’s not great that one of your space fortresses is rebelling, I’m just saying that taking a promising soldier and forcing her to share her body with the resurrected spirit of the brilliant and genocidal general you’ve had locked away for a few centuries is maybe - maybe - not your best plan.
16 votes
The Tarot Sequence by KD Edwards Gay
Where is Addam, missing scion of the Judgement Court? This is a mystery Rune St. John, last scion of Sun Court, has been paid to solve. Other mysteries are too big for money; like who killed Rune’s father and destroyed Sun Court all those years ago? And also, why is Addam so handsome? How did he become so charming? Mysteries, mysteries.
14 votes
A Memory Called Empire by Arkady Martine Lesbian
An ambassador to a sprawling empire must solve the murder of her predecessor before she meets the same fate. Thankfully a version of the murdered man has been reconstructed from his memories and implanted in her mind. Helpful! Unfortunately the memories used were very outdated. Less helpful!
Kushiel’s Legacy by Jacqueline Carey Bi
A courtesan-spy cursed/blessed by her god to find pleasure in pain and a prudish warrior-priest go through all kinds of hell to save their homeland from traitors, but the real battle is the one against their feelings for each other. (And also the persistent idea that this trilogy is all sex when really it’s mostly politics with a little sex, and even then it’s still mostly politics).
Six of Crows by Leigh Bardugo Gay
Did somebody say… heist?? Kaz Brekker is putting together a team for a job that could set them all up for life, if all the tragic backstories and shocking betrayals and sexual tensions could maybe stop getting in the way for just five minutes.
The Craft Sequence by Max Gladstone Lesbian & Trans
This is the series with necromancer attorneys. I mean, I don’t know what else you want from me here. Necromancer. Attorneys.
13 votes
The Shadow Campaigns by Django Wexler Lesbian
We have Marcus, an experienced but tired Captain of a foreign outpost. We have Winter, a green but gifted soldier with some field promotions in his ( well, hers, but shhhh, that’s a secret) future. And last comes Janus, the brilliant but maybe a little mad Colonel who is above sharing his true agenda, but not above maybe getting all them killed in the name of it.
Wayward Children by Seanan McGuire Asexual and trans
This one goes out to all you kids that were transported to fantasy words, and then spat back out on earth once the adventuring was done.
12 votes
The Raven Tower by Ann Leckie Trans
There’s a rock, and there’s the God of that rock, and the endless time that stretches behind and before them, and the tangled feuds the other Gods are constantly mired in that they stay clear of. Or at least, that’s what they’ve always done. Until now.
The Raven Cycle by Maggie Stiefvater Gay and Bi
Four teens in rural Virginia search for a buried Welsh king, but maybe the real Welsh king is the friends we make along the way.
The House in the Cerulean Sea by TJ Klune Gay
A Case Worker at the Department in Charge Of Magical Youth must travel to an island orphanage and determine if the handful of misfit children there (gnome, a sprite, a wyvern, an unidentifiable green blob, a were-Pomeranian, and the Antichrist) are likely to bring about the end of days or not. He must also determine what it is he feels for their charming caretaker.
11 votes
Arcane Ascension by Andrew Rowe Asexual
If you can reach the top of the colossal Serpent Spire— which is to say, if you can survive all the traps and monsters and shifting rooms — you get magical powers and the boon of a Goddess and all sorts of neat shit. Five years ago Corin’s brother entered the tower and didn’t come out again. Now Corin is heading inside to bring him back.
Tensorate by JY Yang Gay, trans and non-binary
A prophet stands on one side of a rebellion and on the other; her brother, who maybe can’t know the future like she does, but who knows that what matters more is changing the right now.
The Left Hand of Darkness by Ursula K Le Guin Non-binary
A human emissary travels to an alien world — where the inhabitants can choose and change their gender at will— in order to convince them to join an intergalactic civilisation.
10 votes
The Kingston Cycle by CL Polk Gay and Lesbian
One good thing about war is that it’s easy enough to fake your own death and start a new life back home where your powerful family can’t use you for your magic. Of course in order for this to be a successful endeavour it helps to keep your head down and not start investigating a murder. If you absolutely must investigate a murder for the love of god don’t do with a mysterious and charming and attention-drawing man by your side. But ok I get it he really is very good looking. Just no high-speed bicycle chases, ok? …Ok?!
The Riverside Books by Ellen Kushner Bi
The nobles of Riverside are so witty and polite, but manners can only take one so far. If you find your tongue just isn’t cutting enough it might be time to head into the slums and find yourself a swordsman to dual on your behalf. Richard St. Vier is the very best of them, but it’s not his swordfighting prowess that has young nobleman Alec attached to his side…
9 votes
A Charm of Magpies by KJ Charles Gay
It takes the deaths of his father and brother to bring Lucien back to England after twenty years, and imagine his disquiet to learn he’s not just inherited his father’s wealth, but his enemies too. He requires magical protection, and it’s just bad luck really that the man he hires has more reason than anyone else to hate Lucien’s family.
The Books of Raksura by Martha Wells Bi
Moon grows up believing he is the last of his kind, until he stumbles upon others and finds out he’s basically royalty. He also finds out his people are super matriarchal, and he’s expected to be a bit more wilting flower and a bit less… feral loner who’s well-used to gutting monsters with his bare claws? Still, If he can let go of his bone-deep abandonment issues for even just one second he might realise he’s found the family he always wanted.
In Other Lands by Sarah Rees Brennan Bi
Eliot is only a child when he is recruited to a magical military academy. One problem though — well, ok, more than one problem. For example, a quill and ink is hideously impractical and there’s only so many pens one carry back from summer break, especially when you’re also trying to smuggle a coffee machine… But aside from all that, there’s the fact that this is an military academy and Eliot is a pacifist. And unfortunately for the war effort he’s also a stubborn little shit.
8 votes
The Deeds of Paksenarrion by Elizabeth Moon Asexual
Paks is eighteen and headstrong when she flees a marriage arranged by her father and joins a mercenary company, and in the amidst all the obstacles and hardships she must overcome she discovers she is also a paladin.
Starless by Jacqueline Carey Non-binary
During a moon-on-moon eclipse two babies are born. One is a princess of the Sun-blessed, and the other her “shadow;” her god-chosen protector. Khai’s whole life is spent training for the moment where he will meet the princess and take on this role, but of course when that time comes he realises that shit’s just barely getting started.
A Taste of Honey by Kai Ashante Wilson Bi
Prose gorgeous enough to make you weep and a story that— Actually, best to go into this one blind. You won’t regret it.
The Montague Siblings by Mackenzi Lee Bi and asexual/aromantic
Don’t you hate it when your European holiday turns into a manhunt, and also your sister is along for the ride so you can’t even hit on your best friend in peace? Smh.
Simon Snow by Rainbow Rowell Maybe gay, maybe bi (protagonist still figuring shit out)
Who needs Harry Potter when you can have Carry On. All the no artificial colour or flavourings magical school deliciousness you love paired with an artisanal magic system and a truly decadent enemies-to-lovers romance.
7 votes
To be Taught, If Fortunate by Becky Chambers Pan
A space explorer and her crew sleep for decades between planets. Earth dramatically changes each time they wake, but they don’t let it get in the way of sending their findings home.
Captive Prince by CS Pacat Bi
Following a violent coup a Prince is disguised as a slave and delivered into the court of his enemies, and the only way save his homeland lies in aiding the worst of them. (A note from me, your friendly OP: A lot of things in the first book of this trilogy will seem very problematic on first read, so this is me promising you that the rest of the trilogy does address it all. Things are not what they seem!)
Silver in the Wood by Emily Tesh Gay
Grumpy woods hermit is repeatedly bothered by wide-eyed scholar.
Bel Dame Apocrypha by Kameron Hurley Bi
Nyx used to be part of an elite bounty-hunter sect, tasked with collecting the heads of boys foolish enough to desert a never-ending war. But now she’s been cast out and all that matters is making money with her motley mercenary crew, no matter how dangerous the job.
The Amberlough Dossier by Lara Elena Donnelly Gay
This is a book about the insidious encroach of fascism, and about two not exactly good men who are not elevated by the love they feel for one another but rather drag it down into their selfish, self-preserving, ruthless world. Also cabaret.
The Last Herald Mage by Mercedes Lackey Gay
Vanyal just really wants to be a bard, but his dad is all ‘like fuck you will, go learn to be a warier.’ Of course then then it turns out he’ll be neither because he is a super powerful mage. I believe there are also psychic horses involved.
Inda by Sherwood Smith Gay and bi
Young Inda is something of a prodigy when it comes to strategy and tactics, so it’s especially awkward when he’s expelled from military academy and turns to a life of piracy.
6 votes
The Band by Nicholas Eames Lesbian
Clay thought his mercenary days were well behind him, but then an old band-mate shows up needing help to rescue his daughter and it looks like there’s one more tour left in him after all. (Note: this blurb applies to book one of The Band, but it's book two,The Bloody Rose, with the lesbian protagonist).
The Winged Histories by Sofia Samatar Lesbian
Four woman, a rebellion, and some stunningly poetic prose.
5 votes
In The Vanishers' Palace by Aliette de Bodard Lesbian
Beauty and the beast but one hundred percent more dragon.
Nemisis by April Daniels Trans
Hiding the fact she’s trans gets a lot harder for Danny when the superhero Dreadnought dies right in front her. Now she’s got his powers, powers which magically transform her body to the shape she’s always known it should be. And now she’s also got a dad desperate to change her back, a best friend who wants to date her, and a whole cabal of superheroes who think she doesn’t belong.
Karen Memory by Elizabeth Bear Lesbian
Prostitutes in an alternate wild-west face of against a bad buy with a streampunk mind control machine.
Santa Olivia by Jacqueline Carey Lesbian
Loup Garron’s father was a genetically engineered soldier on the run from the government, and from him she inherited some cool skills like super strength, speed, and an inability to feel fear. Naturally she uses these skills to become a vigilante superhero and win boxing matches.
Nightrunner by Lynn Flewelling Bi
Painfully sweet young Alec is plucked from a dungeon by the mysterious and dashing elf, Seragol. He’s basically a spy for the queen and he’s all, ‘hey you’re cute wanna come be my spy apprentice?’ Adventures ensue.
China Mountain Zhang by Maureen F Mchugh Gay
It’s the twenty-second century and following an economic collapse and socialist revolution in America, China has become the dominate world-power. We are following Zhang through a decade of his life; sometimes focusing directly on him and sometimes not. Sometimes we are on mars, and sometimes we are not.
Catfishing on CatNet by Naomi Kritzer Lesbian
Living a life constantly on the run from her abusive father really sucks for Steph, but it sucks slightly less with her group of close internet friends on the cat-pic sharing social media site, CatNet. And when he father does finally find her it’s the CatNet, and the sentient AI behind it, who might be her only hope.
An Unkindness of Ghosts by Rivers Solomon Intersex
The HSS Matilda has been carrying tens of thousands of people across space for generations; from a ruined Earth to a supposed promised land. The populace of the ship are separated across highly-segregated racial lines, but when a link is found between the deaths of the ship’s Monarch and Aster’s own mother she won’t let them stand in the way of uncovering the truth.
The Founders trilogy by Robert Jackson Bennett Lesbian
The trouble with being an excellent thief is eventually someone’s gonna pay you to steal the kind of thing that people would kill for. In Sancia’s case it’s a powerful artifact that some bad guys want to use to re-write the world.
Dr. Greta Helsing by Vivian Shaw Gay
Greta Helsing, doctor to the undead, must stop of a group of murderous monks before they kill all of her clients.
4 votes
The Drowning Girl by Caitlín R. Kiernan Lesbian
A masterclass in what a skilled author can do with an unreliable narrator, The Drowning Call follows India Morgan Phelps (Imp to her friends) as she attempts to write a ghost story. Or, well. A “ghost story.”
The Winnowing Flame by Jen Williams Lesbian
There’s nothing more depressing than spending your days in a city in decline, watching your life slowly pass you by. So who can blame Tormalin the Oathless for instead taking up with an eccentric explorer and a fugitive witch, for leaving the city behind and heading off to fight monsters and unearth artifacts.
Elemental Logic by Laurie J Marks Lesbian (at least? I get the impression this is an everyone is queer kind of book. You love to see it).
The Earth Witch is dead and heirless, the elements are out of balance, and the land of Shaftal is slowly, painfully, dying. Its fate now lies in the hands of a scholar turned reluctant warrior; the sole survivor of a slaughtered tribe, and a drug-addicted half-blood giant.
The Watchmaker of Filigree Street by Natasha Pulley Gay
When Thaniel finds a gold pocket watch on his pillow he’s like, hey cool. Free watch. It’s not until it saves his life that he figures he should maybe find where it came from. A journey that leads him to Japanese immigrant Keita Mori, from Victorian London to civil war Japan, and even further beyond.
Seven Blades in Black by Sam Sykes Lesbian
Among humans, none have power like mages. And among mages, none have will like Sal the Cacophony. Once revered, now vagrant, she walks a wasteland scarred by generations of magical warfare.
Los Nefilim by T Frohock Gay
There’s a war between angels and demons being fought in 1930s Spain, but Diago Alvarez is staying out of it. He’s half-angel, half-demon, wholly not giving a fuck. But when Diago’s lover Miquel and his son are threatened Diago realises he does have some fucks to give after all.
Shades of Magic by VE Schwab Bisexual, Gay
Antari are magicians with the ability to travel between alternate Londonds, and Kell is one of the last of them. Officially he’s a diplomat for the royal family that adopted him; carrying letters to the different Londons on behalf of his royal parents. Less officially he’s a smuggler. Guess which of those is about to get him into a whole mess of trouble?
Tales from Verania by TJ Klune Gay
This book is ridiculous and fun and will make your face hurt from all the grinning and then when you least suspect it BAM it punches you in the heart. So sneaky. When Prince Justin becomes King, Sam will be his wizard. Even though Justin is a jerk and is dating Knight Commander Ryan, who is a dreamboat and anyone can see should be with Sam. When Justin gets kidnapped by a dragon, Sam and Ryan (and Gary the sassy unicorn) have to go save him.
Did you think I was kidding when I said pour one out for the TBRs?
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2020.08.22 21:00 gszabi99 1.101 first dev server changes

My take on the first 1.101 dev server, if anyone is interested.

1.99.1.94 → 1.101.0.12 changes:

Raw changes: https://github.com/gszabi99/War-Thunder-Datamine/compare/1.99.1.94..1.101.0.12
Current dev version – 1.101.0.12
Current live version – 1.99.1.95
Next one: https://www.reddit.com/Warthundecomments/if0zp2/1101_first_dev_server_changes_part_2/
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2020.08.05 15:45 denverpirate919 Am I able to file a civil suit for emotional distress resulting from an being physically assaulted and verbally threatened?

Question: Am I able to file a civil suit for emotional distress resulting from an being physically assaulted and verbally threatened. This happened 3 days ago and I am still having psychological issues.
What happened:
I was riding my bike down a residential street (speed limit 25 mph) that runs into a main road that runs up and down the island in Kill Devil Hills, NC. A car pulls out in front of me and then takes their foot off the gas causing me to break and stand behind here car (Basically stopping traffic as another car had come up behind me at this point). In the heat of the moment i threw my hands in the air and said WTF. The driver of the car screamed back that he was in a F****** car and I am on a bike. Get off the F****** road. I then just yelled for him to get out of the way with a couple of choice of my own involving him just moving out of the way. The driver proceeded to get out of his car and charge me. In doing so he did not put the car in park.. but in reverse causing me to hop off of my bike as his car ran it over. The driver grabbed my bike and threw it into another lane on the street. Ran to his car, put it in park and charged me again shoving me exclaiming that "i will beat your f****** a**" and "you dont want to mess with me." The driver then runs to his car and speeds off. I called 911 to tell them that i had been assaulted and threats had been made (took over 10 minutes for cops to arrive) and that the individual had fled the scene. By the time the cops arrived the man in the car who assaulted me had returned to the scene and had a story of his own for the cops that involved me throwing by bike at his car. The officer he could not cite the man because there was not a witness to him running over my bike. However, the officer told me there was also no witness proving that I didnt throw my bike at his car.
It turns out there was a home owner across the street who filmed the man getting out of his car and shoving me and coming at me aggressively while screaming F*** you and a few other things.

I am 5'8 170 pounds. This man is over 6'4 200 pounds and I felt threatened for my life. I wasnt able to eat or sleep for 24 hours and had to go to an urgent care to get pharmacological help to calm me down.


I have since filed a criminal complaint at the county magistrates office that has gone through and an initial court date has been set.
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2020.08.03 13:35 Army_Bot Summary For: Weekly Question Thread (7/27/2020 to 8/2/2020)

Went into the recruiter wanting an 18x contract, he explained the high attrition rate and suggested i was better off signing a contract for a different MOS and upon AIT graduation meeting with special forces recruiter to go to selection, so if i do fail i would go back to my unit as opposed to needs of the army. This made sense to me, so i have a temporary reservation for 35T but is it really that easy? Is he blowing smoke up my ass or does he genuinely have my best interest in mind?
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Hey all, so my boyfriend is in the army and his MOS is infantry. I plan on enlisting some time within the next six months. My MOS is going to be aviation. I understand that to be taken seriously we have to be married. How does getting stationed together work for two people with different MOSs and how likely is it that it’ll happen for two people who aren’t married?
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Any advice on some good study materials to focus on before shipping as a 68W? I’ve been studying basic anatomy and physiology, and was registered for a “stop the bleed” class that unfortunately got cancelled due to COVID. I’ve been looking at EMT manuals online too, but not sure what direction to go in with those. Thanks in advance for the help.
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What would be the way to go about learning to be an auto mechanic on the side while active duty? I assume I would use COOL, but most of what I'm finding on there are credentials for people with the MOS/technical skills of a mechanic already. I have a completely unrelated MOS and no technical skills, I'm looking to learn.
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Currently at AIT, getting ready to ship to fort carson 1st sbct and am curious to know if theres any news of the brigade deploying any time soon since there heading to NTC for the month of August. My sponsor hasn’t responded to me, assuming he’s busy with preparing for ntc. Thanks
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Looking for a gut check. I'm turning 31 soon. Single, no kids. Some college, had several types of jobs, worked with every kind of bad boss and useless coworker, had every type of bad situation, made every kind of mistake, thankfully no issues with the law or any medical issues.
 
I have had a vague drive to join (notably the infantry) since I was a kid. It never really went away, not really. Not even when I tried to learn as much as possible about the utter suck involved and the frankly sketchy ethics of a lot of the US's actions overseas the last 20 years or so. (not even slightly trying to disrespect the time anyone has spent serving, but the moral implications of some of the things we're sent to do make me personally uncomfortable)
 
Almost every person I talk to, even vets from multiple branches including infantry all say it's a bad idea. My family especially hates the idea.
 
The military is unethical they say, I'll be miserable, I'll feel like a prisoner, whatever. You name it, I've heard it. From all age demographics and walks of life.
 
For whatever reason though, the stories I read on this sub still are attractive. The one time my cousin opened up about his time in Afghanistan over 15 years ago has stuck with me above every other shitty story I've heard. He was a few beers in, and finally talked about his time in the infantry after I asked him (he was in right after 9/11 and was tight lipped 99% of the time). He clearly had a lot of pride in what he did and the guys he was with. It meant a lot to me then and left a strong impression.
 
But maybe I have selective hearing. Maybe I'm seriously delusional about whether or not I'll fit in, or if I'm really capable of playing along to get along the way the army requires.
 
I'm liberal as fuck, but think I can do a pretty good job keeping my mouth shut and doing my job. I'm a pretty emotional and sensitive dude overall but have learned to keep that shit private when necessary, guard my heart closely as they say.
 
I need the real deal from someone, am I a fucking disaster waiting to happen if I join? By default? I'm pretty close to saying "fuck this shit" and just heading to the recruiter. I'm pretty sick of the years of waiting, researching, trying other shit out, looking for the right job or the right time to come along, or for the people in my life to magically change their minds about the army so that their approval isn't so fucking evasive.
 
Am I just ignoring dozens of red flags?
 
Obviously, even now, I should modulate my reaction and make an adult choice after some serious thought, but man, at a certain point I'll be too old for something like the infantry, right?
 
I feel like most of the people who tell me not to join are doing so with good intentions, but they're not me, it's not their life. They kind of piss me off honestly. Am I just childish and ungrateful?
 
I know realistically I'm not immune to the consequences of a very, very bad experience during my time in. including potential trauma, injury, death, mental health issues and more. But for the love of fuck, life has already kicked the shit out of me and I've done everything I can to make it through. I've never been afraid to ask for help, use resources from my mentors and teachers, family and friends, professional help when required. I've survived some awful shit and come out alive and occasionally better for it.
 
Maybe they're famous last words, but I find myself constantly thinking, "it'd be pretty fucking hard for life in the army to be significantly worse than this shit."
 
Maybe I'm already a dead man walking so to speak. Talk me out of it or don't.
Either way thanks in advance for your time.
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I ship August 3rd and am wondering what I need to bring for basic. My recruiter gave me a list from 2013 and I'm wondering if it has changed due to quarantines. Should I bring more than one change of clothes?
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I’ve been going through the enlisting process for a month to a month and a half now and I feel like I’m watching paint dry. I’m extremely eager to get my MOS and my date for basic so I suppose I’m a little impatient. Is it normal for the process to take this long?
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Question about my first AT.
I'm a recently commissioned LT, but pre-BOLC, so I figure there's not a whole lot separating me from an SMP cadet right now.
I got put into the S-shops at a reserve MP unit, and the captain in charge of my S-shop is taking leave to work on Captain's Career Course. I've reached out to him for a few pointers before I go, but I figure it can't hurt to see if anyone has any tips here. What should I expect from an AT at an MP unit?
Thanks!
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So I am at AIT and I was working my ass off to land a volunteer spot at airborne school. We originally had about 20 open seats and the candidates with the best GPAs, PT scores, and least counselings would be selected.
So far I have one of the highest GPAs in the class, great PT, and no disciplinary counseling. I was basically a shoe in for a spot. But thanks covid they completely shut down taking volunteer seats.
I figure the best chance I'll have to go Airborne is asking for once I get to my unit but accepting that it's going to be a few years before that's realistically going to happen. What's the process like once I get out of the AIT And how can I maximize my chances of being selected?
(And yes, for the thousandth time, I know I should have gotten it in my contract.)
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I found out that I was DA selected for recruiter duty this morning and have a report date for the course. Aside from the usual negatives that I'm sure everyone has read about on this subreddit, what are some pro's to being a recruiter? Is there anything I should be on the lookout for / be proactive with before and after I arrive on station?
Also, how would this effect my WOCS packet in the event that I am selected? I've been told that you're stuck in recruiter status no matter what and others have said I would get pulled to WOCS.
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I just picked up my promotable status, what correspondence courses do you guys recomend as a 68W?
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Who do I talk to about volunteering for a ranger school slot? I am a Pre-BOLC 70B.
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My MOS is 25B. Looking from advice from others that have or had this MOS for advice on how to make the most of my time during this contract and I'm also curious on possible job prospects for afterwards. Did your experience in the Army help with getting a civilian job? I plan on starting a CS bachelor's this fall and also going for Sec+. Thanks for any advice.
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I ship out within two weeks. Got the job I wanted so hyped about that. I'm not worried about most of what's to come but I'm not in the greatest of shape. I lost 30 or so pounds to meet weight but I didn't work on cardio or strength training much. At the moment I can do about 15-20 pushups at the max from being fully recovered. After a set of those that drops to maybe 10 pushups per burst. Not sure about sit-ups but I've done a few sets of 20-30 with energy leftover. My biggest worry is running, I can't run for shit. I'm a bigger guy and get drained quickly. I can do intervals of quarter mile jogs. If I push it to the max I can maybe go half a mile in one go but after that I have to slow it down to walking to recover.
I know I'm not going to be anywhere near the most out of shape person at BCT but with what I described above, how am I looking for what's in store at basic?
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I'm planning on enlisting 68w and going to airborne school. Should I only contract with option 4, or is waiting till MEPS still a very reliable route to get the opportunity? Thank you.
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Hopefully y’all can help. My boyfriend has been promising me that he plans on going to the army this has been promised for going on 3 years since he left college. I’m a rising senior and I feel like he needs to complete the whatever process it is to go to the army, because working in a warehouse isn’t going to cut it forever. But every time I bring it up, it’s a new reason why he can’t immediately go despite me seeing multiple friends and family enter the army. Here are the list of excuses I have been given, I was hoping y’all could validate whether these are true or is it bs: - Had to retake ASVAB because his results expired. -Changed recruiters (when I met him it was a man now it’s a woman) -Too many parking tickets -License suspended (got that fixed) -Still has to pay off speeding and parking tickets before he can go.
He often changes the date of when he will go to basic. In 2018 he was leaving the end of November, Then it was January 2019, August 2019, January 2020 now its the end of the year 2020.
Idk I just need help figuring out if these excuses and dates are valid??? Help.
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How are the 82nd barracks set up? I am going to the sustainment BDE, and I’ve heard mixed things about the barracks... I really only care about having my own room.
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How long does it take to get medical consul after the doctor finds something potentially disqualifying during your medical exam?
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For anyone who is thinking of joining the Guard or Reserves, how do we find out where is the closest drill location to home?
Also, how long are average deployments?
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Anyone in 17A or 25D I had a couple questions before joining, I would greatly appreciate ur help
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Transition to 35G
Background : I am currently in the army reserves as an 88n. I am also going to school to get my degree in Geospatial Technology with an expected graduation date in 2023.
I am interested in going active and would like to go Geospatial Intelligence Imagery Analyst (35G).
I’m going to ask a bunch of questions, answer as many as you like, I still have time to do my own research.
  • What is AIT like?
  • Assuming is transfer as an E5/E6, what would I be doing?
  • Given that I am reserves atm, what is active duty life, more specifically as a 35g?
  • Do you think my college degree would translate to what I would be doing?
  • What type of schools/opportunities would I have in this MOS?
  • After I get out I would like to go to some government agency, how similar do you think it’ll be? (CIA, NGA, etc.)
I know a lot of this is situational and unit dependent but anything helps.
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So I ship out in a week and I was wondering how the quarantine is gonna work, like will the two weeks of quarantine go into my 9 weeks of Bootcamp or is it not? What will I be doing for two weeks ? Will we have any contact with anyone besides the people who shipped in that day ?
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Whats the significance of field promotions over non-field promotions? Is it just where it happens or is it more complicated?
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My husbands MOS is 36B and he will be graduating BCT this coming week and going to AIT in Ft. Jackson SC. Will they be given their phone while at AIT?
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In 2004 I was honorably discharged while in BCT.
I'll be going to MEPS this Friday to go through my physical.
Since 2004, I have received my 4 year degree.
I have read that one is typically able to go in as an E-4 if they have their 4 year degree.
Myself being what my recruiter is calling a "Chapter," he says I am ineligible to go in as anything other than E-1 since I'm not technically prior service, but also not technically a new recruit.
I don't fully understand and was hoping someone else might be able to clarify.
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Also they mentioned that I would be selecting my MOS at MEPS. I'm wondering if that is the time to also secure Option 4, enroll in the LRP for my student loans, negotiate the rank I'll go in as etc...
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Currently only 10 days are allowed for PCS leave. Even if going you're OCONUS to CONUS unless you have a ETP. What are some good reasons to get an ETP?
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Edit. Accidentally didn’t reply to individual comment thread
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I want to join the Army Rangers SO and I know I can do it but what are the options after you get out? It seems like you get out and great you can do all these military things but that doesn't seem very helpful in getting a good job to pay the bills and more in civilian life. Am I wrong? If so please inlighten me.
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Howdy, i reached 6 months of service on my ERB but the PV2 slot is still blank, do promotions kick in on the first of the month or should i be worried?
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I’m a college student looking into possibly being an officer in the reserves or national guard, while going on to attend graduate school.
I was wondering if any reserve component officers would be willing to talk with l me about their experience, especially if they were pursuing a grad degree/PhD.
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Alright thanks. Love you
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If I get selected for a 4 year ROTC scholarship and FLEP, would my service obligation—8 years for ROTC and 6 years for FLEP— add together? Also, the IRR have no responsibilities that require me to be actively present, correct?
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Hey I just turned 18 and my friend was telling me that I have to sign up for the draft or something but when I looked it up is said I had until I was 25 can someone please point me in right Direction
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Going Army, no jobs open in Admin, what should I do? First choice is 42A, should I wait? Try another branch?
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What would be the closest MOS to 25P? I understand that most people don't actually do what the 25P job description means so i'm asking what MOS is closest to its everyday computer fixing and communications type job.
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Long story short I've always wanted to join. Either I had a good job or was talked out of it by people in my life. Now with Covid I'm one of many who were laid off, I worked at a hospital as a lift tech and was laid off due to cut backs. Is it impractical to attempt to join at this point? I'm older, but still in shape. Just throwing this out there, thanks for any responses I get.
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What type of eye exam do they do at army reception? Will you go through a whole exam where you get your eyes dilated?
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Hello! Im almost certainly enlisting in the upcoming week and they have locked a MOS 15C for me. The main reason I'm joining is because they explained the Warrent officer path to become a helio pilot to me. I was wondering if someone could tell me, exactly how difficult it is/ requirements to submit the warrant officer packet? They made it sound super simple, but im guessing there are other "hidden" requirements. I.e. serving a set number of years, obtaining certain qualifications ect.
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Does anybody know if I'll have to retake SERE for the Army? I've already completed SERE for the Air Force.
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Got an infantry contract but coming off of a cut at 135 5’3. Is there any time after you’re stationed to do any long term fitness plan such as a 10 month bulk or a 3 month cut? I’d imagine with something like a bulk the constant rucking and daily pt would make it a little challenging.
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Anybody stationed at Fort Hood willing to chat? Just got projections there and wanted someone to ask a few questions.
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Need some advice. So I have my MEPS date scheduled for Monday and Teusday next week. My recruiter and I just scheduled this yesterday, the process has been pretty quick. I really dont want to piss anybody off but I think I need to reschedule for 2, maybe 3 weeks from then. Reason being I'm not 100% positive I'll pass the drug test. I haven't smoked in about a month, but I want to play it safe. Before I get a lecture, I know drugs are bad. I don't plan on smoking at all while enlisted.
I really want this and don't want to risk F'ing myself before my career even starts. Anybody have an analogous experience or been in my shoes? I should also note: I was told my MOS is being reserved for me right now, would I be screwing myself if I rescheduled? Feel like I'm in a real though spot rn
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I just ETSed as a SPC from the 82nd as an 11B. Currently working towards my CS degree at an online school. I am considering joining the NC national guard as a 35T. What are the job prospects like for someone fresh out of 35T AIT with a TS clearance and a CS degree?
I know the degree and training is worth something in the civilian world, but I wouldn't have any real-world experience when applying to jobs after AIT.
Other considerations are that I would like to stay in NC because my wife is a pharmacist and brings in around 140k a year so it would be very easy for us to relocate within NC because already has the license required to work in this state. Would my degree/training land me a civilian job at Bragg or would I have to move to DC for good job opportunities?
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I’m going to MEPS on Friday to enlist as a 17C, and basic is in Fort Leonard Wood in mid August. I’ve heard mixed things about Fort LW, and I also heard the weather is very bipolar. Will they provide us with accommodating attire or schedules or is it a fuck it and do it type attitude? Also, with the whole COVID thing going, is “Yellow Phase” going to be in place and cut into Red phase? I’ve tried asking my recruiter but it seems like nobody knows what i’m talking about.
My biggest concern is the physical aspect. The ACFT looks fun and i’m looking forward to it but the 2 mile is killing me since i’m a sprinter and not an endurance runner. Any tips on building up that endurance and strength from now until the 17th of August?
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In the guard, transferring into a new MOS and a new unit within the same state. Do I need to turn in my TA50 to my old unit prior to getting to my new unit?
If yes, am I allowed to go to CIF on my own or does this need to go through supply?
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I’m a recently commissioned Pre-BOLC Reservist LT. My 1LT buddy in the reserves told me that I don’t actually have to show up to drill until after BOLC. That I could use this time to do other things. Is this true? I got in contact with someone from my unit about a month ago to schedule BOLC but haven’t spoken to them since.
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I (17F) just signed a contract for 68W and ship out to basic training at Fort Sill next June. What should I expect pt to be like and what should I be ready for? I’m horrible at running and really need to work on that especially. What are some workout routines you guys might recommend?
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What happens if someone fights back at SERE school?
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I'm told that airborne and other schools are rare to get into writing before enlisting these days, and that it is generally offered after basic due to washout rates for those who reserve spots.
Yet everything I've read says that if I want a school, I need it in my contract before and at meps, otherwise there's absolutely no certainty it will be available/allowable for me. And that especially at osut, nobody cares what I will want unless it's in my contract.
Same with SFAS etc. He said there's generally no 18x enlistment anymore.
Thanks.
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Hey guys i think I’m joining the army I really have no clue on what is the army I did my research here and there I have my asvab testing on Monday anything I should know or like what I should score to get a decent jobs or what are the decent jobs I should be looking to aim for
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Is there any pathway allowing a Canadian citizen to join the US Army and receive the paid education benefits? Or even just being able to join the US army? Thank you!
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Anyone know if Cat IV is opening anytime soon?
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When does the cat 4 open up again plz need to know
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I’m considering PCSing to Carson. I would like to catch a deployment with 4ID.
Advice? Tips? Would I most likely catch one (OPSEC and all)?
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What are the living conditions like for single soldiers at Fort Hood? I’ll be going under the 13th Sustainment Command if it makes a difference.
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I want to join the army but I also get homesick. Any tips?
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Can a 25 series (Bravo in particular) wear a plate carrier with tools in an admin pouch on the job?
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I did that already I just need to sign my contract that’s y I’m asking about the cat 4 opening
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I signed my contract a couple months ago, leaving early next year. Did reserves because I have a civilian career that I enjoy. I’m just curious if anybody has been a 37F on the reserve side? MOS was portrayed as super high-speed, but I’m more so curious about the AIT experience and typical duty expectations. Any info is appreciated.
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I’m going to try to sign an 11 Bravo contract, I hear Fort Benning is very difficult, and is it really as hard as I hear?
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Leaving for BCT in 2 months. How hard is DoD fire academy? What are the hardest parts of this AIT? Where most recruits fails? Im not firefighter so I don't have any experience in firefighting or EMS. I study firefighting basics and EMS online, dozens of hours to complete, any advices on what I should focus? Hows AIT recycling looks? They will be more focused on you in case failure? Thanks
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Anyone have last minute tips for shipping to basic? I leave on the third.
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Hoping to go 17A. For this MOS and others that require TS/SCI, does the full clearance process need to complete before shipping? Or just interim? Neither?
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What does an 88n do on deployment?
Like I know working in the CRSP yard and tracking inventory/personnel. But is there more to it?
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Hey, guys.
New here. I'm 29, in good shape and I have degrees in math and physics. I'm hoping to attend OCS. I've been stuck between jobs during coronavirus and I'm hoping to get moving as quickly as possible.
This is an emergency situation, I have no money and no job. An officer packet takes a long time for review etc. So I'm considering enlisting first and then dropping the officer packet once I'm in.
My recruiter has told me this is a reasonable thing to do, but as is always the case with recruiters, I suspect she may be excessively optimistic how sensible of a plan this is.
My question is this: The "pro" for this plan is that I get moving sooner. But I don't know the cons. I suspect there are problems I don't know how to anticipate--things like: I need an officers approval to turn in a packet and they want me to spend more time in their unit before they're okay with me leaving-- or something like that.

So reddit, what cons am I not aware of?
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Cyber Operations Officer (17A)
Anyone have insight on this position? Was interested in maybe pursuing this job through the Reserves. Appreciate any info.
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Hello I was just wondering if anyone can give me some insight on 13B in today’s army I’ve read up a lot and wanna know some personal experience from someone who’s done it or is doing it now as well as what deployments are like I ship sep 8 to fort sill if anyone can give me some info about bct there. I was wondering if I’ll get the opportunity to go airborne after ait.any info is appreciated thanks!
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What should I pack for Army BCT? everything article I’ve found is contrary to the one I read before it. What is the best packing list? Some say bring underwear and socks and so on while others say that everything you need is issued and you can buy it at the PX. Not sure what to listen to anymore.
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I just enlisted on Thursday as 13m and was wondering what it entails, I wanted to do infantry but they didn’t have anything open. Will it make getting into special forces harder? And will I still go out the field and train like infantry?
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I've heard people say that the jungle tab may be authorized for wear outside of Hawaii, anyone know if that's true or not? I'm trying to get it regardless but it would be cool to be able to wear it at my next duty station too.
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Do I need to contact my in-processing at AIT if I’m not there by my report date? GOV travel is lagging. If this breaks OPSEC or anything let me know.
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Dumb question: How many leave days am I allowed for a Korea PCS? Currently can't do leave in conjunction with travel days, the JTR says 1 day for air travel, but doesn't go into details about how international dateline works. For example if I fly on the 15th, but don't arrive/sign in until the 17th that's 2 days even if I only traveled for 20 hours or what not.
Do I just put 2 days on the leave form and eat a day or...? Any regs you guys know of specifically addressing this? Not a huge deal just don't want to waste a day of leave if I don't have to.
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Just got on a bus to go to the field on the other side of Korea. Our leadership said the PL wants us to turn in our phones upon arrival. Is this something they can do? We were just told to leave them home last field cycle, which I’m fine with. I just don’t trust them with my phone.
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Some promotion points questions. Any guides to how promotion points work in general would be useful. My team leader doesn't like answering questions.
  1. I'm a college specialist (4 year degree) but its showing zero promotion points for my degree. Is this correct since I didn't earn it while serving or do I need to get that fixed?
  2. Do promotion points expired in general? Like if I took a online course this year would the points expire eventually before getting promoted?
  3. You guys recommend any courses in general for useful or easy points?
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35N (SIGNIT) - Signals Intelligence - Army
I am shipping as a 35N - Signals Intelligence at the end of August to Ft. Leonard Wood.
Hoping that I get cleared for top secret, is there anyone out there who can give me the best tips to have this MOS translate to the civilian world?
This is what I have gathered so far:
-Go to as many schools as possible
-AIT won’t have any college credits that transfer
-Deployments help gain experience
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Junior year of HS here, so im confused, if you join the army and stay for a few years and then get honorably discharged, do you get to go to college/university for free? Specifically asking about Florida if that helps
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8 months in my primary zone, no board appearance. Weird amount of time in limbo cuz of covid, idk if they’re still doing paper boards or what.
Are actual boards returning or is it all still through paper? Trying to get ahead.
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Anyone in 25N reserves? Or just 25N Active duty. I wanted to ask a couple questions about the job and what classes you take in AIT. Appreciate any help
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If you attend West Point. How exactly can you go about getting Ranger qualification/Air Assault school/Airborne school. Or do you do these after you officially commission? If so when would you be given opportunities to do such training?
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I want to be a pilot but I’m colorblind. Should I get a contract for my second choice (88M Ranger) and not worry about any color tests, or should I go for it and get my contract, then possibly fail both color tests at MEPS and have to restart.
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Anybody know what FRAGO produced the FY20 requirement for APFTs that I keep seeing around the Army? I keep hearing it and I don't know where it's coming from, just that it contradicts what the Secretary of the Army is saying. Per AR 350-1 record APFTs should be taken twice a year however, APFTs are valid for one year.
Army directive 2020-06 is a very clear that a "passing score on the last record APFT remains valid until 31 March 2022 for any purpose requiring a passing APFT or score, including, but not limited to, professional military education, functional courses, or operational course credit consideration."
That would mean that absent any FRAGO, any requirements for an FY20 requirement for APFTs is contradicting the Secretary of the Army's guidance, right? But there would have to be some FRAGO for me to be seeing this in multiple places, right?
Would appreciate any references here.
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Yeah sure. Hi a have a question about enlisting in the armed services
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2020.08.03 13:35 Army_Bot Summary For: Weekly Question Thread (7/27/2020 to 8/2/2020)

Went into the recruiter wanting an 18x contract, he explained the high attrition rate and suggested i was better off signing a contract for a different MOS and upon AIT graduation meeting with special forces recruiter to go to selection, so if i do fail i would go back to my unit as opposed to needs of the army. This made sense to me, so i have a temporary reservation for 35T but is it really that easy? Is he blowing smoke up my ass or does he genuinely have my best interest in mind?
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Hey all, so my boyfriend is in the army and his MOS is infantry. I plan on enlisting some time within the next six months. My MOS is going to be aviation. I understand that to be taken seriously we have to be married. How does getting stationed together work for two people with different MOSs and how likely is it that it’ll happen for two people who aren’t married?
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Any advice on some good study materials to focus on before shipping as a 68W? I’ve been studying basic anatomy and physiology, and was registered for a “stop the bleed” class that unfortunately got cancelled due to COVID. I’ve been looking at EMT manuals online too, but not sure what direction to go in with those. Thanks in advance for the help.
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What would be the way to go about learning to be an auto mechanic on the side while active duty? I assume I would use COOL, but most of what I'm finding on there are credentials for people with the MOS/technical skills of a mechanic already. I have a completely unrelated MOS and no technical skills, I'm looking to learn.
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Currently at AIT, getting ready to ship to fort carson 1st sbct and am curious to know if theres any news of the brigade deploying any time soon since there heading to NTC for the month of August. My sponsor hasn’t responded to me, assuming he’s busy with preparing for ntc. Thanks
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Looking for a gut check. I'm turning 31 soon. Single, no kids. Some college, had several types of jobs, worked with every kind of bad boss and useless coworker, had every type of bad situation, made every kind of mistake, thankfully no issues with the law or any medical issues.
 
I have had a vague drive to join (notably the infantry) since I was a kid. It never really went away, not really. Not even when I tried to learn as much as possible about the utter suck involved and the frankly sketchy ethics of a lot of the US's actions overseas the last 20 years or so. (not even slightly trying to disrespect the time anyone has spent serving, but the moral implications of some of the things we're sent to do make me personally uncomfortable)
 
Almost every person I talk to, even vets from multiple branches including infantry all say it's a bad idea. My family especially hates the idea.
 
The military is unethical they say, I'll be miserable, I'll feel like a prisoner, whatever. You name it, I've heard it. From all age demographics and walks of life.
 
For whatever reason though, the stories I read on this sub still are attractive. The one time my cousin opened up about his time in Afghanistan over 15 years ago has stuck with me above every other shitty story I've heard. He was a few beers in, and finally talked about his time in the infantry after I asked him (he was in right after 9/11 and was tight lipped 99% of the time). He clearly had a lot of pride in what he did and the guys he was with. It meant a lot to me then and left a strong impression.
 
But maybe I have selective hearing. Maybe I'm seriously delusional about whether or not I'll fit in, or if I'm really capable of playing along to get along the way the army requires.
 
I'm liberal as fuck, but think I can do a pretty good job keeping my mouth shut and doing my job. I'm a pretty emotional and sensitive dude overall but have learned to keep that shit private when necessary, guard my heart closely as they say.
 
I need the real deal from someone, am I a fucking disaster waiting to happen if I join? By default? I'm pretty close to saying "fuck this shit" and just heading to the recruiter. I'm pretty sick of the years of waiting, researching, trying other shit out, looking for the right job or the right time to come along, or for the people in my life to magically change their minds about the army so that their approval isn't so fucking evasive.
 
Am I just ignoring dozens of red flags?
 
Obviously, even now, I should modulate my reaction and make an adult choice after some serious thought, but man, at a certain point I'll be too old for something like the infantry, right?
 
I feel like most of the people who tell me not to join are doing so with good intentions, but they're not me, it's not their life. They kind of piss me off honestly. Am I just childish and ungrateful?
 
I know realistically I'm not immune to the consequences of a very, very bad experience during my time in. including potential trauma, injury, death, mental health issues and more. But for the love of fuck, life has already kicked the shit out of me and I've done everything I can to make it through. I've never been afraid to ask for help, use resources from my mentors and teachers, family and friends, professional help when required. I've survived some awful shit and come out alive and occasionally better for it.
 
Maybe they're famous last words, but I find myself constantly thinking, "it'd be pretty fucking hard for life in the army to be significantly worse than this shit."
 
Maybe I'm already a dead man walking so to speak. Talk me out of it or don't.
Either way thanks in advance for your time.
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I ship August 3rd and am wondering what I need to bring for basic. My recruiter gave me a list from 2013 and I'm wondering if it has changed due to quarantines. Should I bring more than one change of clothes?
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I’ve been going through the enlisting process for a month to a month and a half now and I feel like I’m watching paint dry. I’m extremely eager to get my MOS and my date for basic so I suppose I’m a little impatient. Is it normal for the process to take this long?
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Question about my first AT.
I'm a recently commissioned LT, but pre-BOLC, so I figure there's not a whole lot separating me from an SMP cadet right now.
I got put into the S-shops at a reserve MP unit, and the captain in charge of my S-shop is taking leave to work on Captain's Career Course. I've reached out to him for a few pointers before I go, but I figure it can't hurt to see if anyone has any tips here. What should I expect from an AT at an MP unit?
Thanks!
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So I am at AIT and I was working my ass off to land a volunteer spot at airborne school. We originally had about 20 open seats and the candidates with the best GPAs, PT scores, and least counselings would be selected.
So far I have one of the highest GPAs in the class, great PT, and no disciplinary counseling. I was basically a shoe in for a spot. But thanks covid they completely shut down taking volunteer seats.
I figure the best chance I'll have to go Airborne is asking for once I get to my unit but accepting that it's going to be a few years before that's realistically going to happen. What's the process like once I get out of the AIT And how can I maximize my chances of being selected?
(And yes, for the thousandth time, I know I should have gotten it in my contract.)
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I found out that I was DA selected for recruiter duty this morning and have a report date for the course. Aside from the usual negatives that I'm sure everyone has read about on this subreddit, what are some pro's to being a recruiter? Is there anything I should be on the lookout for / be proactive with before and after I arrive on station?
Also, how would this effect my WOCS packet in the event that I am selected? I've been told that you're stuck in recruiter status no matter what and others have said I would get pulled to WOCS.
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I just picked up my promotable status, what correspondence courses do you guys recomend as a 68W?
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Who do I talk to about volunteering for a ranger school slot? I am a Pre-BOLC 70B.
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My MOS is 25B. Looking from advice from others that have or had this MOS for advice on how to make the most of my time during this contract and I'm also curious on possible job prospects for afterwards. Did your experience in the Army help with getting a civilian job? I plan on starting a CS bachelor's this fall and also going for Sec+. Thanks for any advice.
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I ship out within two weeks. Got the job I wanted so hyped about that. I'm not worried about most of what's to come but I'm not in the greatest of shape. I lost 30 or so pounds to meet weight but I didn't work on cardio or strength training much. At the moment I can do about 15-20 pushups at the max from being fully recovered. After a set of those that drops to maybe 10 pushups per burst. Not sure about sit-ups but I've done a few sets of 20-30 with energy leftover. My biggest worry is running, I can't run for shit. I'm a bigger guy and get drained quickly. I can do intervals of quarter mile jogs. If I push it to the max I can maybe go half a mile in one go but after that I have to slow it down to walking to recover.
I know I'm not going to be anywhere near the most out of shape person at BCT but with what I described above, how am I looking for what's in store at basic?
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I'm planning on enlisting 68w and going to airborne school. Should I only contract with option 4, or is waiting till MEPS still a very reliable route to get the opportunity? Thank you.
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Hopefully y’all can help. My boyfriend has been promising me that he plans on going to the army this has been promised for going on 3 years since he left college. I’m a rising senior and I feel like he needs to complete the whatever process it is to go to the army, because working in a warehouse isn’t going to cut it forever. But every time I bring it up, it’s a new reason why he can’t immediately go despite me seeing multiple friends and family enter the army. Here are the list of excuses I have been given, I was hoping y’all could validate whether these are true or is it bs: - Had to retake ASVAB because his results expired. -Changed recruiters (when I met him it was a man now it’s a woman) -Too many parking tickets -License suspended (got that fixed) -Still has to pay off speeding and parking tickets before he can go.
He often changes the date of when he will go to basic. In 2018 he was leaving the end of November, Then it was January 2019, August 2019, January 2020 now its the end of the year 2020.
Idk I just need help figuring out if these excuses and dates are valid??? Help.
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How are the 82nd barracks set up? I am going to the sustainment BDE, and I’ve heard mixed things about the barracks... I really only care about having my own room.
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How long does it take to get medical consul after the doctor finds something potentially disqualifying during your medical exam?
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For anyone who is thinking of joining the Guard or Reserves, how do we find out where is the closest drill location to home?
Also, how long are average deployments?
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Anyone in 17A or 25D I had a couple questions before joining, I would greatly appreciate ur help
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Transition to 35G
Background : I am currently in the army reserves as an 88n. I am also going to school to get my degree in Geospatial Technology with an expected graduation date in 2023.
I am interested in going active and would like to go Geospatial Intelligence Imagery Analyst (35G).
I’m going to ask a bunch of questions, answer as many as you like, I still have time to do my own research.
  • What is AIT like?
  • Assuming is transfer as an E5/E6, what would I be doing?
  • Given that I am reserves atm, what is active duty life, more specifically as a 35g?
  • Do you think my college degree would translate to what I would be doing?
  • What type of schools/opportunities would I have in this MOS?
  • After I get out I would like to go to some government agency, how similar do you think it’ll be? (CIA, NGA, etc.)
I know a lot of this is situational and unit dependent but anything helps.
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So I ship out in a week and I was wondering how the quarantine is gonna work, like will the two weeks of quarantine go into my 9 weeks of Bootcamp or is it not? What will I be doing for two weeks ? Will we have any contact with anyone besides the people who shipped in that day ?
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Whats the significance of field promotions over non-field promotions? Is it just where it happens or is it more complicated?
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My husbands MOS is 36B and he will be graduating BCT this coming week and going to AIT in Ft. Jackson SC. Will they be given their phone while at AIT?
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In 2004 I was honorably discharged while in BCT.
I'll be going to MEPS this Friday to go through my physical.
Since 2004, I have received my 4 year degree.
I have read that one is typically able to go in as an E-4 if they have their 4 year degree.
Myself being what my recruiter is calling a "Chapter," he says I am ineligible to go in as anything other than E-1 since I'm not technically prior service, but also not technically a new recruit.
I don't fully understand and was hoping someone else might be able to clarify.
EDIT:
Also they mentioned that I would be selecting my MOS at MEPS. I'm wondering if that is the time to also secure Option 4, enroll in the LRP for my student loans, negotiate the rank I'll go in as etc...
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Currently only 10 days are allowed for PCS leave. Even if going you're OCONUS to CONUS unless you have a ETP. What are some good reasons to get an ETP?
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I want to join the Army Rangers SO and I know I can do it but what are the options after you get out? It seems like you get out and great you can do all these military things but that doesn't seem very helpful in getting a good job to pay the bills and more in civilian life. Am I wrong? If so please inlighten me.
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Howdy, i reached 6 months of service on my ERB but the PV2 slot is still blank, do promotions kick in on the first of the month or should i be worried?
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I’m a college student looking into possibly being an officer in the reserves or national guard, while going on to attend graduate school.
I was wondering if any reserve component officers would be willing to talk with l me about their experience, especially if they were pursuing a grad degree/PhD.
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Alright thanks. Love you
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If I get selected for a 4 year ROTC scholarship and FLEP, would my service obligation—8 years for ROTC and 6 years for FLEP— add together? Also, the IRR have no responsibilities that require me to be actively present, correct?
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Hey I just turned 18 and my friend was telling me that I have to sign up for the draft or something but when I looked it up is said I had until I was 25 can someone please point me in right Direction
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Going Army, no jobs open in Admin, what should I do? First choice is 42A, should I wait? Try another branch?
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What would be the closest MOS to 25P? I understand that most people don't actually do what the 25P job description means so i'm asking what MOS is closest to its everyday computer fixing and communications type job.
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Long story short I've always wanted to join. Either I had a good job or was talked out of it by people in my life. Now with Covid I'm one of many who were laid off, I worked at a hospital as a lift tech and was laid off due to cut backs. Is it impractical to attempt to join at this point? I'm older, but still in shape. Just throwing this out there, thanks for any responses I get.
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What type of eye exam do they do at army reception? Will you go through a whole exam where you get your eyes dilated?
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Hello! Im almost certainly enlisting in the upcoming week and they have locked a MOS 15C for me. The main reason I'm joining is because they explained the Warrent officer path to become a helio pilot to me. I was wondering if someone could tell me, exactly how difficult it is/ requirements to submit the warrant officer packet? They made it sound super simple, but im guessing there are other "hidden" requirements. I.e. serving a set number of years, obtaining certain qualifications ect.
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Does anybody know if I'll have to retake SERE for the Army? I've already completed SERE for the Air Force.
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Got an infantry contract but coming off of a cut at 135 5’3. Is there any time after you’re stationed to do any long term fitness plan such as a 10 month bulk or a 3 month cut? I’d imagine with something like a bulk the constant rucking and daily pt would make it a little challenging.
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Anybody stationed at Fort Hood willing to chat? Just got projections there and wanted someone to ask a few questions.
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Need some advice. So I have my MEPS date scheduled for Monday and Teusday next week. My recruiter and I just scheduled this yesterday, the process has been pretty quick. I really dont want to piss anybody off but I think I need to reschedule for 2, maybe 3 weeks from then. Reason being I'm not 100% positive I'll pass the drug test. I haven't smoked in about a month, but I want to play it safe. Before I get a lecture, I know drugs are bad. I don't plan on smoking at all while enlisted.
I really want this and don't want to risk F'ing myself before my career even starts. Anybody have an analogous experience or been in my shoes? I should also note: I was told my MOS is being reserved for me right now, would I be screwing myself if I rescheduled? Feel like I'm in a real though spot rn
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I just ETSed as a SPC from the 82nd as an 11B. Currently working towards my CS degree at an online school. I am considering joining the NC national guard as a 35T. What are the job prospects like for someone fresh out of 35T AIT with a TS clearance and a CS degree?
I know the degree and training is worth something in the civilian world, but I wouldn't have any real-world experience when applying to jobs after AIT.
Other considerations are that I would like to stay in NC because my wife is a pharmacist and brings in around 140k a year so it would be very easy for us to relocate within NC because already has the license required to work in this state. Would my degree/training land me a civilian job at Bragg or would I have to move to DC for good job opportunities?
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I’m going to MEPS on Friday to enlist as a 17C, and basic is in Fort Leonard Wood in mid August. I’ve heard mixed things about Fort LW, and I also heard the weather is very bipolar. Will they provide us with accommodating attire or schedules or is it a fuck it and do it type attitude? Also, with the whole COVID thing going, is “Yellow Phase” going to be in place and cut into Red phase? I’ve tried asking my recruiter but it seems like nobody knows what i’m talking about.
My biggest concern is the physical aspect. The ACFT looks fun and i’m looking forward to it but the 2 mile is killing me since i’m a sprinter and not an endurance runner. Any tips on building up that endurance and strength from now until the 17th of August?
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In the guard, transferring into a new MOS and a new unit within the same state. Do I need to turn in my TA50 to my old unit prior to getting to my new unit?
If yes, am I allowed to go to CIF on my own or does this need to go through supply?
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I’m a recently commissioned Pre-BOLC Reservist LT. My 1LT buddy in the reserves told me that I don’t actually have to show up to drill until after BOLC. That I could use this time to do other things. Is this true? I got in contact with someone from my unit about a month ago to schedule BOLC but haven’t spoken to them since.
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I (17F) just signed a contract for 68W and ship out to basic training at Fort Sill next June. What should I expect pt to be like and what should I be ready for? I’m horrible at running and really need to work on that especially. What are some workout routines you guys might recommend?
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What happens if someone fights back at SERE school?
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I'm told that airborne and other schools are rare to get into writing before enlisting these days, and that it is generally offered after basic due to washout rates for those who reserve spots.
Yet everything I've read says that if I want a school, I need it in my contract before and at meps, otherwise there's absolutely no certainty it will be available/allowable for me. And that especially at osut, nobody cares what I will want unless it's in my contract.
Same with SFAS etc. He said there's generally no 18x enlistment anymore.
Thanks.
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Hey guys i think I’m joining the army I really have no clue on what is the army I did my research here and there I have my asvab testing on Monday anything I should know or like what I should score to get a decent jobs or what are the decent jobs I should be looking to aim for
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Is there any pathway allowing a Canadian citizen to join the US Army and receive the paid education benefits? Or even just being able to join the US army? Thank you!
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Anyone know if Cat IV is opening anytime soon?
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When does the cat 4 open up again plz need to know
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I’m considering PCSing to Carson. I would like to catch a deployment with 4ID.
Advice? Tips? Would I most likely catch one (OPSEC and all)?
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What are the living conditions like for single soldiers at Fort Hood? I’ll be going under the 13th Sustainment Command if it makes a difference.
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I want to join the army but I also get homesick. Any tips?
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Can a 25 series (Bravo in particular) wear a plate carrier with tools in an admin pouch on the job?
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I did that already I just need to sign my contract that’s y I’m asking about the cat 4 opening
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I signed my contract a couple months ago, leaving early next year. Did reserves because I have a civilian career that I enjoy. I’m just curious if anybody has been a 37F on the reserve side? MOS was portrayed as super high-speed, but I’m more so curious about the AIT experience and typical duty expectations. Any info is appreciated.
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I’m going to try to sign an 11 Bravo contract, I hear Fort Benning is very difficult, and is it really as hard as I hear?
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Leaving for BCT in 2 months. How hard is DoD fire academy? What are the hardest parts of this AIT? Where most recruits fails? Im not firefighter so I don't have any experience in firefighting or EMS. I study firefighting basics and EMS online, dozens of hours to complete, any advices on what I should focus? Hows AIT recycling looks? They will be more focused on you in case failure? Thanks
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Anyone have last minute tips for shipping to basic? I leave on the third.
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Hoping to go 17A. For this MOS and others that require TS/SCI, does the full clearance process need to complete before shipping? Or just interim? Neither?
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What does an 88n do on deployment?
Like I know working in the CRSP yard and tracking inventory/personnel. But is there more to it?
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Hey, guys.
New here. I'm 29, in good shape and I have degrees in math and physics. I'm hoping to attend OCS. I've been stuck between jobs during coronavirus and I'm hoping to get moving as quickly as possible.
This is an emergency situation, I have no money and no job. An officer packet takes a long time for review etc. So I'm considering enlisting first and then dropping the officer packet once I'm in.
My recruiter has told me this is a reasonable thing to do, but as is always the case with recruiters, I suspect she may be excessively optimistic how sensible of a plan this is.
My question is this: The "pro" for this plan is that I get moving sooner. But I don't know the cons. I suspect there are problems I don't know how to anticipate--things like: I need an officers approval to turn in a packet and they want me to spend more time in their unit before they're okay with me leaving-- or something like that.

So reddit, what cons am I not aware of?
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Cyber Operations Officer (17A)
Anyone have insight on this position? Was interested in maybe pursuing this job through the Reserves. Appreciate any info.
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Hello I was just wondering if anyone can give me some insight on 13B in today’s army I’ve read up a lot and wanna know some personal experience from someone who’s done it or is doing it now as well as what deployments are like I ship sep 8 to fort sill if anyone can give me some info about bct there. I was wondering if I’ll get the opportunity to go airborne after ait.any info is appreciated thanks!
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What should I pack for Army BCT? everything article I’ve found is contrary to the one I read before it. What is the best packing list? Some say bring underwear and socks and so on while others say that everything you need is issued and you can buy it at the PX. Not sure what to listen to anymore.
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I just enlisted on Thursday as 13m and was wondering what it entails, I wanted to do infantry but they didn’t have anything open. Will it make getting into special forces harder? And will I still go out the field and train like infantry?
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I've heard people say that the jungle tab may be authorized for wear outside of Hawaii, anyone know if that's true or not? I'm trying to get it regardless but it would be cool to be able to wear it at my next duty station too.
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Do I need to contact my in-processing at AIT if I’m not there by my report date? GOV travel is lagging. If this breaks OPSEC or anything let me know.
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Dumb question: How many leave days am I allowed for a Korea PCS? Currently can't do leave in conjunction with travel days, the JTR says 1 day for air travel, but doesn't go into details about how international dateline works. For example if I fly on the 15th, but don't arrive/sign in until the 17th that's 2 days even if I only traveled for 20 hours or what not.
Do I just put 2 days on the leave form and eat a day or...? Any regs you guys know of specifically addressing this? Not a huge deal just don't want to waste a day of leave if I don't have to.
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Just got on a bus to go to the field on the other side of Korea. Our leadership said the PL wants us to turn in our phones upon arrival. Is this something they can do? We were just told to leave them home last field cycle, which I’m fine with. I just don’t trust them with my phone.
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Some promotion points questions. Any guides to how promotion points work in general would be useful. My team leader doesn't like answering questions.
  1. I'm a college specialist (4 year degree) but its showing zero promotion points for my degree. Is this correct since I didn't earn it while serving or do I need to get that fixed?
  2. Do promotion points expired in general? Like if I took a online course this year would the points expire eventually before getting promoted?
  3. You guys recommend any courses in general for useful or easy points?
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35N (SIGNIT) - Signals Intelligence - Army
I am shipping as a 35N - Signals Intelligence at the end of August to Ft. Leonard Wood.
Hoping that I get cleared for top secret, is there anyone out there who can give me the best tips to have this MOS translate to the civilian world?
This is what I have gathered so far:
-Go to as many schools as possible
-AIT won’t have any college credits that transfer
-Deployments help gain experience
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Junior year of HS here, so im confused, if you join the army and stay for a few years and then get honorably discharged, do you get to go to college/university for free? Specifically asking about Florida if that helps
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8 months in my primary zone, no board appearance. Weird amount of time in limbo cuz of covid, idk if they’re still doing paper boards or what.
Are actual boards returning or is it all still through paper? Trying to get ahead.
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Anyone in 25N reserves? Or just 25N Active duty. I wanted to ask a couple questions about the job and what classes you take in AIT. Appreciate any help
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If you attend West Point. How exactly can you go about getting Ranger qualification/Air Assault school/Airborne school. Or do you do these after you officially commission? If so when would you be given opportunities to do such training?
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I want to be a pilot but I’m colorblind. Should I get a contract for my second choice (88M Ranger) and not worry about any color tests, or should I go for it and get my contract, then possibly fail both color tests at MEPS and have to restart.
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Anybody know what FRAGO produced the FY20 requirement for APFTs that I keep seeing around the Army? I keep hearing it and I don't know where it's coming from, just that it contradicts what the Secretary of the Army is saying. Per AR 350-1 record APFTs should be taken twice a year however, APFTs are valid for one year.
Army directive 2020-06 is a very clear that a "passing score on the last record APFT remains valid until 31 March 2022 for any purpose requiring a passing APFT or score, including, but not limited to, professional military education, functional courses, or operational course credit consideration."
That would mean that absent any FRAGO, any requirements for an FY20 requirement for APFTs is contradicting the Secretary of the Army's guidance, right? But there would have to be some FRAGO for me to be seeing this in multiple places, right?
Would appreciate any references here.
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2020.08.03 12:45 Koevis Update on the grandparents rights mess with Ignorella

Trigger warning for mentions of abuse. Because my father is involved in all of it too, I have been posting on JustNoFamily, but I figure not everyone who followed my mess reads over there, so I wanted to write an update here too. This will be the shortish version, if you want to know the long version, there are a lot of posts on JustNoFamily. I don't feel like I can type everything out again.
So... We're still in a court battle against grandparents rights, and we still have to take our children to the supervised visitation room once a month. Corona gave us a much needed break (visits stopped for a few months because of quarantine measures, visits started up again last month). Ignorella has been pushing all kinds of buttons, including writing pages about how they still don't know what they ever did wrong for court, continuing to call me crazy, and most recently parking their car on our side of the visitation room (they have a completely different entrance on a different street) and watching me while I had to walk past their car alone (Corona measures, couldn't take husband with me) right after dropping off my children. That one hit really hard, she took away my feeling of safety when it comes to the visitation room. Having to calmly walk past the people who have been abusing me for 20+ years, while I was already at a low point because I had to drop off my children for a visit again, something I really don't want to do, was one of the most difficult things I've had to do in a long time, and it gave me one hell of a panic attack once I was out of their sight.
In October, we have a new court date. This one will give a more long-term ruling. Ignorella is still asking exactly the same thing she was asking in the beginning, all holidays, all family functions, sleepovers, extra time during school vacations,... At her house, without supervision or with supervision of one of my (absolutely not neutral!) sisters. Basically shared custody. She also keeps denying everything I say, but wants us to go to counseling together... We just want to keep our kids safe, so although we really want to be able to fully go NC, we are mostly asking for those forced visits to continue to happen under close supervision by neutral, trained professionals. Our lawyer is amazing and pissed off at my parents, we couldn't have asked for someone better.
There are some tensions with MIL, because of my bad SIL, but that doesn't belong on this sub. She's mostly an enabler, and we're dealing with it.
Husband and I are spread thin. I'm often exhausted and I shut down, I just fall asleep from it at times. Husband has been slowly but surely running out of energy to deal with all of this, and it's starting to weigh really heavily on him. We're both in regular therapy, it helps. Our kids are doing great. Neither asks about Ignorella or my father, neither seems to have any emotional reaction on the visits. The only thing we really notice is that my son has asked about certain toys at Ignorella's home once, and that both of them run full speed towards us after those visits. My son has recently asked a more detailed explanation than what I've given previously, and he seemed to understand. I'm really proud of both of my kids for how they are handling things.
The relationship with my sisters isn't where it used to be, but especially my oldest sister has made huge steps to fixing our relationship. I believe this will only get better over time. I have reconciled with the family members who have written a statement for Ignorella's side. I got a wonderful dog who is my therapy buddy and helps me feel more secure.
We're coping. It's mostly part of our day-to-day life by now. It isn't easy, but we're doing mostly OK. We'll see what happens in October. I just hope the supervision stays in place.
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